My boyfriend and I had been together over a year. He has cheated on me once that I know of, and he has left me for another woman twice. He broke up with me Wednesday night, he said he didn't want me anymore. Sometimes he calls me and asks me to take him back. Sometimes I feel like I am no good or him breaking up with me is my fault.
2006-07-07 18:07:41 · 16 answers · asked by stormy_nite1973 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
first thing girl, dont take his calls anymore, he is playing u, your the fall back girl, when he cant get it anywhere else, he calls, honey, dump him u can do a lot better, so stand your ground, he's the jerk not u, he think he has u in his pocket, ditch the bum
2006-07-07 18:15:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He does it only because his heart is not with you. The fact that you keep taking him back makes him think he can do it time and time again, with the same outcome. You still will take him back. If you have any respect for yourself, and know what you deserve, which hopefully is the best, you will not let this as-swipe back into your life. Ive been in a 3 year relationship in which I cheated on the boyfriend. Its horrible on my part and I'm not proud of it at all. But what I do know, is that after the first time he took me back I lost respect for him. I continued with my bad ways. He let me step all over him. The reason I did it was plan and simple. I wasn't content with who i was with. When two people are truly happy, and both feel the utmost love for one another, these "actions" will never be done. He doesn't feel as strong for you as you do to him. Let some time go by with no contact with each other at all, and let him figure out whether all those flings were worth losing you.
2006-07-08 01:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by Nelly S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fault ? How in hell is that so ?
He just left you, so he could be available to the new girl. Now that he is, and he knows
you have too good a heart, but are not too
careful with it , he'll have you too !!!
People do that all the time, so they can have
both things going on.
He will cheat on her with you, as he did to
you. And he'll cheat on anyone of you
who allows him.
Say NO, my friend. Lonely nights don't
have to last forever. Take your time,
and meet new people, perhaps someone
you have eyed before, and didn't dare.
Just don't let anyone juggle with you feelings, let them win your heart.
2006-07-08 01:19:22 · answer #3 · answered by nightflyerkin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy that cheats will always cheat. Is this how you want to live. Don't be there the next time he calls and wants you back. Your worth more then that. It is the others don't want him. And he doesn't want to be alone. He knows you will take him back. Think more of yourself pride and get on with your life. It isn't your fault it is his problem.
2006-07-08 01:13:53 · answer #4 · answered by B D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should've dumped him the first time he cheated on you. He does not respect you or love you. Sorry to say. It seems that he thinks you will always be available to him no matter what. You can do so much better. There are thousands of guys much better than him out there. Don't waste time with this scum sucking loser. Don't let him use you. I've been there before. I felt like sh** after being used. You are a woman who deserves to be treated with love and respect.
2006-07-08 01:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by pureessence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should you feel like it is your fault? You are not the person that cheated or the person that keeps changing their mind. I hope you do the right thing and have nothing to do with this loser ever again. He's using you to be his "security blanket" so that if he can't find another girl out there he will always have you.
2006-07-08 01:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by Tina L. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know but when you find out, email me. Mine does the same thing. But don't ever put yourself down. You are never NO GOOD. That should never come out of a girls mouth. Your never no good, hes not good enough for you. Its not your fault. He just need to get his life straight. He doesn't know what he wants. You tell him when you figure out what you want you can call me, but until then i don't want nothing to do with you. There is no since in you driving on a straight path, but with him in your life hes got you swerving all over the road.
2006-07-08 01:17:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is his problem, not yours. I know that it is hard when you really like someone. You want to be with them and you keep thinking that this time you can make it work. But he has shown his true colors. You can't change him. No matter how hard it is you have to stay away from him and move on. Even if it feels like you won't get over him...YOU WILL! If you stay longer, one day you will realize that you were just wasting your time and passing up opportunites at real love. Good luck and be strong!
2006-07-08 01:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not your fault that he broke up with you. hes jus a very confused man. its alright though your better off without him. he cant hurt you anymore.
2006-07-08 01:14:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there r some things that can be with him, hes a LOSER, drunk, cunfused, needs a theripist *srry if spelled wrong* or just is a PUNK that doesn't know what he wants....
Wellz hope you huv best of luck so Good Luck!!!
2006-07-08 01:13:37 · answer #10 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋