my bf just died what do i do?

Question

ok first thing he died yesterday and i can't get over him if u knew him u would be the same way i just really miss him and i need help

Answer 1

Be very sad

Answer 2

You have my deepest smypathies...just remember time heals all wounds. I know exactly how it feels to have a good friend die. My friend died in October while I was away at school. I was so upset that a nearly cried for a week. What hurt the most was that I didn't even get to go to his funeral. Most people advise people to go a counsoler but nobody knows you as well as you do...so just mourn and always remember the great times you had with your good friend. Yeah, i might still mist up when I think of my friend but I can also smile and think of all our good memories we had together.

Answer 3

cry a lot and then seek help with friends, releigious figures, or therapy. you can not let this relationship control you. unfortunately things happen that are out of our control people die and you can't change that but you can deal with it in a healthy way. do not let what other people think of you control your movements after this. no matter how long you wait to start dating again someone will always think it is too soon. i am sorry that this happened to you and i wish i had a magical answer for you but there isn't one. nothing with make you feel better there isn't a cure. Just feel how you feel and don't worry about everything it will all take care of itself.

Answer 4

First of all I would like to say that I am truely sorry. And I or no one else can really tell you what to do. Grief is a process that you will just have to go through, but try to stay busy, and set goals for your future no matter how hard that sounds. Just remember when we loose someone close, we have thier memories and that keeps them alive in our hearts. I wish you well, be strong and remember loosing him was bad but look at what he gave you when he was here.

Answer 5

My girlfriend died last October of lung cancer.. First, I wanted to follow her, then, between periods of numbness, I cried, a lot. Friends tried to boost my spirits and eventually, one friend who had gone through the same thing turned me on to grief counseling. This helped a lot. I had a chance to talk out my feelings with a non-judge-mental stranger who was trained to listen and help me put things in perspective. Believe me, this will help, and pay no attention to the unfeeling jerks who responded.

Answer 6

This has to be a hard time, but these things happen. If you were really close, then you'll need to grieve his death the way you would if your brother or sister or mom or dad died (or your grampa).

Even if he was relatively new and you weren't that close yet, it's a hard thing to have happen. You need to grieve and you need to give yourself time to grieve. And find someone close to talk to (your best friend, your parents, his parents, mutual friends, etc.)

God bless you.

Answer 7

If the girl i truly loved just died, i would only feel bad if I never gave her a chance to be with me or i cheated on her causing her to die of a broken heart. If you and your boyfriend were in love, you should just accept the fact that it was time for him to go and just move on. You must always have faith.

Answer 8

Dnt cry......I knw its very sad and depressing...Although easily said thn done...MOVE ON..life doesnt stop....Make his memories ur strength and nt weakness....and kp urself busy by working fr some good cause....or do something which gives u hapiness... U will have to help urself here...Unless you fight with ur own emotions,, u wnt be able to gt out of this mental trauma [if any;-)]......Remeber God only help those who help themselves.........and believe me if u hv will...its nt tuff....so stop mourninggggggggg......Dont cry becoz its over and he is no more......bt thank God that it happened, for the good times u hv spent together and for the fact that he was there in ur life. Think positive and divert ur mindddddddd !!!!!!!!

Answer 9

when I was 17 my best Friend died , It was the hardest time of my life, I gave up on every thing and one night I seen him in my dreams and he begged me to get out there and live life for the both of us and that he was there at all times with me and I have never gotten over it after 15yrs but I still live my life thinking it is for him too

Answer 10

omg thats horrible im so sorry. give urself time to heal. have a gud long cry over it. then move on, dont hold on for too long. start talkin to other men. itll hurt at first, u may feel lik ur dishonoring his memory, but he would be hapy to see u happy. but first, make sure you take the time to HEAL or ur pain will come bak in uglier forms, trust me...

Answer 11

dont shut out your friends. get a puppy. and therapy might help too (but cute puppy will be cheaper in the long run). Maybe these quotes will cheer you up? Feel better!


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