there is this guy that is "in love with me" and suposedly has been for a couple of years now. The problem is that i don't love him back and i fell in love with his best friend before i knew he liked me. and his best friend is also my best friend. he told me he didnt know what he would do if he saw me and his best friend together... he spent a lot of time tryna make me feel guilty and said that im stubborn and selfish and i alwayz want my way...=( and i dont know what to do...i talked to his best friend but he said he doesnt like me...but i know from other people that he does like me but doesnt want to ruin our relationship..he isnt honest with me and i havnt talked to him in a month but he talks about me all the time... and now the guy that is in love with me says he is going to help me out bcuhz all he wants me to be is happy even if it's without him...
2006-07-07 17:47:20 · 10 answers · asked by shochina2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is this guy that is "in love with me" and suposedly has been for a couple of years now. The problem is that i don't love him back and i fell in love with his best friend before i knew he liked me. and his best friend is also my best friend. he told me he didnt know what he would do if he saw me and his best friend together... he spent a lot of time tryna make me feel guilty and said that im stubborn and selfish and i alwayz want my way...=( and i dont know what to do...i talked to his best friend but he said he doesnt like me...but i know from other people that he does like me but doesnt want to ruin our relationship..he isnt honest with me and i havnt talked to him in a month but he talks about me all the time... and now the guy that is in love with me says he is going to help me out bcuhz all he wants me to be is happy even if it's without him... and the reason i dont even give this guy a chance is bcuhz he already has a gf!!! and he says he loves me...he doesnt make sence...
2006-07-07 18:01:23 · update #1
You cant expect your love to be returned just because you love that one person... Being selfish is not love...
Talk to him, let him know that if he really loves you,he should let go. Dats what love means --> letting go. If you're meant for him, you will be with him sooner or later. Believe in destiny.. If you're meant to be together, you will.
2006-07-07 17:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by MIzzMoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First you were right by letting him know that you did not love him, second if all of yoou are friends then there is no reason why you all can not sit down and talk about this just to get everything in the open so there will be no misunderstandings and nobody gats hurt all at the same time you get to be with who you really want.
2006-07-08 00:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by blaquegirlmahoghany 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is really kind of the guy to help out on getting you with his bestfriend. That is really brave of him. I say you should talk to him. Let him know how you feel. Opne your heart, let him listen. Why do you guys have to live in denial? He just realize that you're just once in a lifetime (not in a bad way). In other words, he has to listen to you before it is too late. Both of you can regret it if both of you don't tell eachother. Let know, girl b4 it's too late. There is no shame to tell the one you love how you feel. It is not a crime. If he is in love with you, he will listen to you. If he doesn't HE'S STUPID. Wish you the best. I hope this helps.
2006-07-08 00:57:25 · answer #3 · answered by Drivliam 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So tell youre friend thats in love with you that you dont feel that way about him but it could be possible that you might. You need to let him know how you feel and if he really loves you he'll wait for you and he'll help you find happiness.
2006-07-08 00:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure he's in LOVE with you or is it just a crush? Ask him questions about why exactly he likes you in particular. Tell him to be honest. If he can't fully explain in detail exactly why he's in love with you, then I wouldn't take the crush so seriously. Tell him he should go out more often and try to meet other girls.
2006-07-08 00:55:52 · answer #5 · answered by pureessence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all if the guy says that ur stubborn and selfish well thats kinda rude no? and if u dunt luv him back den ur just hurting him because ur lying to him and its not real happiness
=P dun be mean to me! lol im telling mom!
2006-07-10 15:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest and tell him you aren't interested and be done with it. If he decides to carry on about it, let him. Your true friends won't believe the crap he is talking about you anyway.
2006-07-08 00:57:47 · answer #7 · answered by turtle33 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, be honest. It is hurtful to love and not being loved, but it is worst to hope for something that is never gonna happen.
2006-07-08 00:52:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest to him say what is you feelings
2006-07-08 00:49:10 · answer #9 · answered by eloisa m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he really does love u, he'll let u go..
2006-07-08 00:52:15 · answer #10 · answered by ~R!@~ (^_^) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋