2006-07-07 17:39:48 · 11 answers · asked by ritard91 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It may cause an irrepairable damage to your friendship. If he doesn't return your love then it will be awkward from then on. You can never take it back. If your love for him isn't that strong, I'd stick with his friendship because you don't want to lose him. Then again, staying in the friendship while being helplessly in love with him, is very painful. I'd first try to find out if he likes you. Try talking, flirting with another guy in his presence or talk about a really cute guy you saw with him and see how he reacts. If he's at a loss of words, angry, or jealous then there is a chance he might like you too. This may sound childish, but why don't you play Spin the Bottle with your friends and hopefully the bottle will point to him when you spin it. You can tell a lot about how a guy feels about you from the way he kisses you. Or play truth or dare and have one of your friends ask him if he has a secret crush on somebody. Observe his reaction, his body language, eye contact, how he speaks, etc.
2006-07-07 17:48:33 · answer #1 · answered by pureessence 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, the best advice I can give you is Yes you should tell him, but try to remember that he might not feel the same way about you...but by telling him though you get that wierd feeling out of your system and possibly begin the start of a new relationship. On the other hand though, you can also open up an akward situation between you guys. In the end, its just best to let him know, so that way, if there is chemistry there he'll realize that yeah you are the one. I dunno if this made any sense, but yeah good luck and take it easy!
2006-07-08 00:51:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
chances are yall werent just friends to begin with cuz he might have a secret crush on u too or he might not, but just tell him, dont worry if yall get together, cuz alot of ppl worry about that cuz they could possibly breakup and they want the relationship to be the same as it was before the hook up, but ppl dont realize that they werent friends from the begining because friends dont crush on eachother crushes crush on eachother, and thats not fair to anyone involved- keeping secrets and hiding the truth, what if he gets a gf that would be unfair to her, what if yall hold feelings inside and he cheats on his gf(just a pretend senario)so see if there could be more he might just be mr.right u never know
2006-07-08 00:49:46 · answer #3 · answered by cherrybc032000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES you deff. tell him, i told my good guy friend and he was cool about it and i think it was better to tell him how i feel. Now when we talk to each other we act like were going out and hes cool about it, but were really not. Actually were actually closer than ever
2006-07-10 14:48:02 · answer #4 · answered by karategirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess it depends... if he's seeing someone, DEFINITELY don't (but you should know that anyway :) ) tell him, but be careful - it could make the friendship awkward if it doesn't turn out as hoped
2006-07-08 00:52:15 · answer #5 · answered by amethystqueen816 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it! But be prepared in case he doesn't like you.
2006-07-08 00:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes what do you have to loose, you never know he may like you as well, you never know unless you try
2006-07-08 00:42:56 · answer #7 · answered by monique b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is single and you like him go for it what is stopping you
2006-07-08 00:43:29 · answer #8 · answered by yumm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him.
2006-07-08 00:42:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should deff let him know how your feeling
2006-07-08 00:42:36 · answer #10 · answered by viper8641 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋