am 18!!!!!i neva understood y this happens 2 me,,,its like...da things tht i always wanted in my life.....i neva got them......if i plan any damn thing ...ot has 2 b 180 opposite of wat i thought of........like my high school marks!!!!!.....my hair colour!!!!!!!......a relationship..........y sometimes life is so hard!!!!?????????
2006-07-07 17:15:44 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You're only 18, so stop freaking out. Life is hard, you deal with it and go on cause that's all you can do. Good luck:)
2006-07-07 17:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is like this so please don't take it personally. You have to keep getting up and going with the flow of things. Trust me everybody here has experienced this more than once in their life and we still experience this from day to day too sometimes. Life is hard and it always will be. I would always ask myself the same question but getting mad about it or wishing it would go away doesn't change anything. Be positive and you will see positive results. Sometimes when it looks as though things are always going bad for us they really are not. Your life has a purpose and you have a destiny also. Whatever happens in your life and the events that follow are supposed to happen for a reason. Everything has to fit together like a puzzle. Even the hard times and those times were you just want to throw in the towel. Pick yourself up and know that these days truly do pass along and brighter days really are around the corner. Strength in character says a lot about a person, are you this type of person?
I hope you are!!!!
2006-07-08 00:31:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a hard life too. I was in a fire at 6yrs old, 2 failed marriages, 2 children one 23y and 14y who's heads are like damn rocks. I have had bad job experiences. I am sad some days but, everyday is not a bad day. Accentuate the positive about yourself and be able and willing to accept who you are. You will feel much better. Yes, you have to cry sometimes and everyone, believe me, everyone suffers at some point in their life. You are not alone with this struggle. Love you for who you are not what you have or how others feel about you. If you constantly think that your self-worth is about things, good grades or relationships, you will never succeed in life. Hold your head up and walk on through life knowing that you are special.
2006-07-08 06:56:16 · answer #3 · answered by Sunny Day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is the same way with me. I'm 17. I've been let down my whole life and nothing works out with me either. Just ride the storm out, things will look up. It's actually a good thing that all the bad stuff is happening now and not later in life when you have your LIFE set on something and not just your mind. Take it easy while you're young and don't try so hard with things. Good stuff always happens when you're least expecting it. Good luck!
2006-07-08 00:23:52 · answer #4 · answered by ♀♥♂☮Trippy Hippie☮♂♥♀ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me when I tell you this, but you'll get through it all. In the end, you will be the strongest person and be able to handle anything, and best of all you might be able to help someone else one day. I'm 30 and I have had a lot of pain in my life;example;I was made fun of a lot in junior high,had ugly hair,never had a boyfriend until I was out of high school, everyone in my school was always smarter, prettier, richer, and more talented then me, my parents divorced, I never saw my dad, my mom was unstable,lots of alcohol and drug abuse in family,lost two important jobs,my marriage is horrible, and I lost my only brother last year(I could have made it through everything with him).I have every reason to be bitter and lots of times I am, but God got me through everything.God does help, trust me,I couldn't have done it without Him. Hang in there!
2006-07-08 00:25:51 · answer #5 · answered by curly98 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once again another question that needs to be decifered by a translator. oi! Try asking the question again in a language that most people understand (i prefer English) and maybe you'll get the help you need. The little dot at the end of each sentence you only need one of not 50. And im pretty sure we get the pointeven if you only use one exclamation point.
2006-07-08 00:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by dancing_inthe_rusted_rain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is not singling you out. Welcome to the club. A lesson you should hopefully learn early in life is that it is as difficult as you make it. In your brief post, everyone can see lack of respect for learning (poor english), poor self image (provative screen name) struggling with identity (hair color) and despondent attitude. That's sort of to be expected at your age... but do yourself a favor - find a positive attitude. And respect yourself a little more- chin up kiddo! You are in control of where life takes you more than you think.
2006-07-08 00:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by mdsmailbox 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean cause it happens to me too and prolly the best of us. Just keep trying and go one day at a time and you will get it right at one point or time. As long as you want something and work hard for it you can get it!
2006-07-08 00:19:25 · answer #8 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just live life as it is, if things are going so wrong when u plan them out stop planing and just live life as it comes to u and have fun
2006-07-08 00:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by dreaming_of_u_16862002 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, look into joining the Peace Corps, you need a new outlook: See what people who REALLY don't have anything get by. Sounds like you've got nothing to lose, anyway.
2006-07-08 00:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by Roadpizza 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋