I started dating this guy. He used to send me messages and call me 24/7 even after the first and second date. Now he doesnt call or send messages as much. I asked him and he says he likes me but doesnt want to rush into a relationship... what does that exaclty mean?? should I just move on before I get too attached to him??
2006-07-07 17:12:29 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no it means just what it is he dont want to rush. slow down gurl it will all work out.
2006-07-07 17:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by oaklandkc1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys are pretty vague when it comes to emotions and women seem to overthink matters, both of which can cause conflict. You have a right to know where you stand and he has a right to take his time. Has he recently gotten out of a nasty relationship? This could be why he wants to take it slow or perhaps he has personal issues he's hoping will resolve on their own. Bottom line though when a guy says he doesn't want to rush into a relationship is means they are not looking for anything serious but it seems you are and in order to not hurt your feelings they say they'd rather not rush. The only way to know for sure is to either give it time or ask him to be honest, just don't get mad at the answer.
2006-07-08 00:21:01 · answer #2 · answered by Blu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your options open ... if you aren't in a serious relationship then you are free to talk to other people. Just see how it goes and don't put all your eggs in one basket so to speak.
If you enjoy being with this guy ... then take the step back and see what happens ... if it is meant to be ... then it will all work out in the end.
Good luck
2006-07-08 00:18:31 · answer #3 · answered by J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it means just that, that he doesn't want to rush into a relationship....Wait a week and call him and ask if he wants to go out to eat or something......Men are strange creatures(LOL) and scare easily.....Allow him to take his time to get used to a female invading his space.....Everything will work out the way it is supposed to, dear....Take care
2006-07-08 00:17:10 · answer #4 · answered by mizzzzthang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It probably means you had sex with him way too soon and he has lost interest. He is probably giving someone else his 24/7 attention now. Move on and learn from your experience.
2006-07-08 00:20:12 · answer #5 · answered by lcmcpa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yea..uve met a man who likes the thrill of the chase! More specifically, he will do anything and everything in his power to get you to like him..the rush of new feelings is exciting to him..but you get used to all the attention and you want to continue more seriously with the feelings you have for him..but..hes in it for the thrill of the chase..he may actually like you..but the honeymoon is over for him..sorry
2006-07-08 00:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by mamitalinda31 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that he doesn't want a relationship right now. Continue to see other people and don't get attached to him.
2006-07-08 00:16:11 · answer #7 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he want to keep his options open and not be all like "I LOVE YOU BABY" when you all really don't know each other that well. Try getting to know him and don't rush into things. Good luck :)
2006-07-08 00:16:16 · answer #8 · answered by heidielizabeth69 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u got a guy who is same as my boyfriend now! he used to put in alot of effort to get me like buying me stuff and bring it to my house for me and even call me 5 times per day!! but after we r together for a long time for like 2 weeks later, he changed. actually he DOES love you. but u know guys are kinda tired to keep doin all this stuff for us and pleased us. they want their way soemtime too so u gonna understand them. good luck :)
2006-07-08 00:20:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this does happen alot. the honeymoon is over type of thing. wait it out for a couple more wks see how he responds. if there is no change and its to dam slow i would say move on.
2006-07-08 00:16:28 · answer #10 · answered by yumm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋