How can i keep my girlfriend and i together, what should i do to reinforce our relationship?

Question

I am greatly in love with her and want to keep her in love with me, pointers and ideas please....

Answer 1

If it is over, then it is over. There is nothing you can do to change a person's heart. They either truly love you, or they don't. If they don't love you anymore it is better to let them go, than to prolong the inevitable.

If it is a true loving relationship, where both partners give and receive equally, then:

-Never fail to let your partner know how much they mean to you.

-Never take advantage of one another just because you can. Nobody likes to feel like a door mat.

-Try picking out one positive quality that you love about them, and tell them about it (at least once a week).

-Remember it is the little things that count. Flowers here and there just because, little tokens of love, a card, cooking a meal, helping with daily chores, etc. It isn't how much money you spend, but the thought that counts. Often the things that are free to give, and freely given, are the things that are held closest to the heart.

-When an issue arrises work to resolve it as soon as possible. Do not it simmer. Talk about the problem open and honestly. However, this does not mean when both of you are so angry that you cannot talk it through without playing the blame game, or yelling. Sometimes you need to take a step back, look at the problem from all perspectives (including their view), and then try working it out with a clearer mind. Come up with possible solutions, and try to find the one that makes it a win-win resolution.

-Be ready to compromise. This doesn't mean that you have to lose your own identity, or individuality. It just means that you have to be willing to meet the other half way. Sometimes this means you just have to agree to disagree and leave it at that.

-Never be afraid to talk about anything at all. If they truly love you they will listen without judgement. This doesn't mean that they have to agree with you, or like what you have to say. A true loving partner will never work to solve a problem for their loved one. Instead they may offer their own opinions, and advice when asked for it, but ultimately leave the solution up to the individual. How can a person learn from their mistakes and grow if everyone else is always solving their problems for them?

I hope this has helped in some way. Good luck!

Answer 2

It's not the big things, it's the small unexpected things most women like. Really listen to her when she talks, touch her when there's no sex involved, every once in a while call her to say I love you and then say good bye and hang up, tell her she's pretty even when she's not all fixed up. It's the little things that tell her she's important to you and you care.

Answer 3

1) provide the utmost, unconditional love that you can offer.
2) always be with her when she needs you.
3) never hurt her in any way.