I'm not sure if I should homeschool, private, or what. We have tried all and so far homeschool seems to be the best but I worry about them not having enough friends to play with.
2006-07-07 16:33:29 · 13 answers · asked by Candie2398 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
I should have said that my kids are in the 9th grade and two are in the 5th grade and they already have friends and we go to church and we are member of the YMCA however, what about making contact on everyday basis and the up and downs on school do you think they will miss out on that?
2006-07-07 16:47:41 · update #1
I live in Mississippi and the schools here are not good to say the least. I pulled them from public put them in private and they had to play caught up for a while. I had to be a tutor, however that is part of being a parent. Private did not work out either because of a clash with me a teacher who thought she could hit my child so now we tried homeschool and it worked for the end of the year but I still worry.
2006-07-07 16:54:38 · update #2
Hey! I'm 16 and i go to public school KEEP THEM AT HOMESCHOOL!! If the go to private they might turn out really snobby and you don't want your kids like that if they go to public oh!boy! They could get in to a lot of things (trouble). My friends are drug heads and really good kids. the good kids are really going to end up being alcoholics most of them at least but my freinds date or hang out with homeschool kids all the time and most homeschool kids I know love it! and really enjoy it because they are really smart have time to do things around the house and keep jobs. Most homeschool kids are really organized with time to. And the plus is no suspenion no haveing to go talk to the teachers. While they are young though go to your neighbors who have kids there age let them meet. Yuor doing a great job as a mom!
2006-07-07 16:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by britt 1 · 10⤊ 7⤋
While children do need to learn about social interaction, is public shcool the best place to do this? Ive known many PS teachers over the years and anyone who tells you they are adequately educating the children they are in charge of 6 hours a day is lying to you.
It's those same undisciplined "needing-social-skills" little monsters who disrupt the class and cause EVERYONE to fall behind. As a homeschooler, you can continually challenge your children according to THEIR abilities... is there a Public or Private School with the cojones to claim the same thing? HOWEVER, this assumes you are qualified to teach your kids. Can you teach intelligently regarding English History and Algebra the same day? Assign homework and follow up on it? Punish those not putting forth an effort?
Also, you have to be certified in most states to homeschool your kids. Maybe MS doesnt have this requirement, but you should make sure they can still get state credit towards graduation, if you homeschool. It would be a real kick in the head if you spent all that time and money homeschooling, to find out they dont qualify to graduate (well, to get a DIPLOMA anyway, you can have your own graduation ceremony.)
If you can make the hard decisions regarding your kids, dont get indulgent on them, dont get lazy and let them coast through, there's no reason why you can't homeschool your kids. Even assuming a few social deficiencies, I'd rather raise a rough-around-the-edges kid who could earn a living successfully than one who was polite but cant read.
2006-07-08 02:54:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are facing the tough decisions you have and we are trying to be logical (hard because I want to protect her so much).
Public has worked for us.......private not a good option (not many GOOD private schools in our area)......homeschooling is valid option and we are considering (but waiting for the school year to begin).
Social interaction is key.......I just wish Mom's like us could find a happy medium. I guess that is why they say this is the hardest job in the world.
I kinda let her guide me through the ruff spots. She excels in everything and has ALOT more common sense than me. If we choose a path she thinks is wrong....she will usually point that out. We have done great with that so far......we'll see what the future holds. Good Luck!
2006-07-08 12:38:58 · answer #3 · answered by sqwirlsgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest not homeschooling. My sister in law is a teacher for first graders and she also suggest the same thing. Children need that interaction. It's not just for now, it's for a lifetime and if they are deprived of that, just think of how much they will retaliate when they become older. If you think they need extra attention, do a little more school work after school so that they will get the extra attention and education at the same time whilst you get the quality time with the children as well.
2006-07-07 16:39:39 · answer #4 · answered by cjl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very few people can homeschool effectively and the kids will resent not getting the chance to socialize with other kids. Public schools have many benefits such as music education and band, athletic competition, clubs, and many social activities. There are some excellent public schools. Visit your local school and observe some classes. I think you will be pleasantly surprised.
2006-07-07 16:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was home schooled and although I excelled academically it was socially depriving. My siblings did not do so well with it...they were not bookworms like I was. I think private is a good choice. Public school is not so bad either. It gives the kids an opportunity to see what the real world is and how to deal with it. My kids will be going to public school.
2006-07-07 16:46:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are going to go with the homeschool thing, find out if there is a homeschool group in your area where you can meet with the other kids for social skills.
2006-07-07 16:41:04 · answer #7 · answered by bdbsmom2897 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
home school is a very good thing to do! You know for sure they are getting a good education, because you are teaching them the information they are learning! There are plenty of home school parents in the same comunity as you home schooling as well. Im sure just like all places home schooling parents will meet togother to socialize with other parents for friendly outings for their kids to meet and greet other kids home schooled just like them! I recomend you looking into the programs and outings they have for home schooled children!
P.S. It may take a little more work but its worth it in the long run!!
2006-07-07 16:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Public School. You can request a certain teacher. Ask parents of other children who have gone to a public school and ask for recommendations. Ask the principal for mandated testing scores for pupils in a teachers class from the previous year. Ask. Ask. Ask.
2006-07-07 16:42:41 · answer #9 · answered by Kayylee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, darlin', allow the kids to play with the other children in the neighborhood. Also, depending on what ages they are, get them involved in activities such as rec leagues so that they can learn about sports, teamwork, and sportsmanship. Take them to the museum, park, and other places where they can meet other kids. They will enjoy it as well as you. Hey, you might be able to connect with other people as well. Be good, and stay strong!
2006-07-07 16:40:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say if your children are making grades you are proud of, have friends, and good teachers, they are at a school that is good for them. If you have any doubts you can usually look up the name of any school and ask for a progress report.
2006-07-07 16:44:35 · answer #11 · answered by Kayissa B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋