we are at the state fair and me and my boyfriends hands are super close.. should i make the first move or not.. if so how should i do it lol
2006-07-07 16:21:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, make the first move. show him that youre affectionate and that you have feelings for him. if youre just sitting together, not holding hands or anything, maybe slowly move your hand to his and kind of offer to hold it. if he looks at you, look back and smile, and maybe blush a little...just make sure it's ok with him..if he pulls back, then you know he;s not ready for it just yet...take your time though and dont rush into anything.
2006-07-07 16:24:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
ladyinwaiting said: Guys don't like holding hands. You can try it, but good luck.
That's not true for all guys, he might like it that your making a move and if he cares about you it will be a way for the two of you to connect.
2006-07-07 23:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just move your hand slightly cupped to brush against his, enough to make a statement. If he doesn't respond, then he doesn't want to hold hands. Or you can just flat out just hold them =) I do that when I want to hold hands. I don't care what he thinks.
2006-07-07 23:23:38 · answer #3 · answered by ♥<ŦĦØΛ>♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you want to hold his hand and do it, people get lost trying to play mind games by observing the partners reactions rather than just saying how you feel and what you want.
Its your life don't waste it guessing what someone might be thinking.
2006-07-07 23:30:10 · answer #4 · answered by scuba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to go on a ride that is somewhat a thriller, and grab his neck as hard as you can! Let him get out first, and then hold out your hand, and say, "Can you help me out?" The moment he takes your hand, have it become a vice on his!
2006-07-07 23:25:40 · answer #5 · answered by rhino 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not even holding hands yet....How is he your boyfriend??
You mean he's a boy that is a friend???
You can always just take his hand...give it a little squeeze and then let go of it.
Boy's love it when you act coy!
2006-07-07 23:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by werk2much2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would but im one of those girls who will hold his hand 1st and wait for him to make the next move. all u do is slide your hand into his and hope he holds your hand back!
2006-07-07 23:24:59 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just do it and if he pulls back it means he doesn't want to. Don't push it, some people don't like holding hands.
2006-07-07 23:26:08 · answer #8 · answered by Mr. Sly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys don't like holding hands. You can try it, but good luck.
2006-07-07 23:25:59 · answer #9 · answered by neener68 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes make the move depending on how old you are he might be intimidated and is not sure if he should or not. and the best way to do it is just do it
2006-07-07 23:23:54 · answer #10 · answered by Ty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋