What do women want?

Question

There is an old adage that a man who says that he understands women really understands nothing at all. What do women want? One day I feel like I have it covered and then I end up falling on my face. Is there even an answer to this question?

Answer 1

COOKIES

Answer 2

There is such variety of people on this planet, that a man couldn’t possibly tell what a women want. However!.. all women are greatly impressed by a manly figure, well built body, manly voice, and mostly the image of a strong self-aware man how knows what he want’s all the time. Masculinity is the basic rule of judgment, not flowers and candy! And let’s say want’s and for all, women are not asexual human beings they like and enjoy sex, sometimes even more and longer then man can. It all depends on what turns on different types of women in particular, and we can’t generalize on this! Finally there’s no general answer to this question.

Answer 3

I think that changes from time to time but ideally O think a woman wants someone who is genuine, honest, someone who listens, really listens, someone she can have a decent conversation with. I mean you don't have to talk for hours but do something besides conversational fillers (uh huh, yeah, really, etc), someone she can be herself around or better yet maybe brings out her true self like never before. I think it is also important that a woman feel truly and absolutely comfortable around her man. She feels most beautiful and most sexy around him even with just a t-shirt and shorts. Making her laugh is a big plus. But also being able to be serious and understanding. And last but not least it is important to let her be independent while also being a gentleman by opening up doors, paying for dates and being spontaneous. ANother good point is dividing enough time for togetherness and for each other's own personal space. It keeps it fresh and doesn't overdo the "we" time.

I know it is a big equation but communication gets you through it all. Just be honest and willing to give and take within the relationship. Communication, trust, respect, and intimacy (and not just sexually) are key.

Answer 4

Well all women are different. Women want different things, the real question is what do true women want? Then I can answer that questions. True women are real with everything. Very confident, intelligent, and knows how to deal with situations good or bad. True women want to be loved by a true man, but seems like true women arent really out there for true men. So...I guess the real question is...are there any true women out there? You have to look hard, if you are finding that true person for you. Good lucks!

Answer 5

Well, I think all of that ^^^^^^ is ummmmm..uhhhhh...lol

Women have a deep biological need for security. This comes from our history of child-production and the period of time we spend "disabled" due to child birth and child rearing but it affects all women even if they never plan to have kids. A man can provide this by showing up on time, following through with commitments and generally being reliable. This really has very little to do with how much money you make or your personal attractiveness. Once the hormonal-rage is over every woman responds to reliability.

Answer 6

To be honest, I am a 31 year old woman with five children and a 40 year old husband. Every woman is different, some like to be spoiled with material things, some like just the simple things in life, but a woman always wants to know that she is what he wants and needs. There is a song by Meredith Brooks called "*****" and it really describes every woman. I don't believe a woman really knows what she wants all the time. I want to be loved and appreciated, respected and desired, surprised and safe

Answer 7

Yes.

If you treat a woman like she is the only woman one earth, that she is a delicate flower, that she is most important thin to you and use those guidelines in all you do. You will have magic powers.

Open doors for her.
Hold her hand.
Make eye contact and smile.
Tell her you love her and mean it.
Put her first in bed.
Hug her.
Cuddle.
Talk openly and honestly.
Care about the small things.
Woman want a listener not a sugar daddy.
Fancy things can't replace sincere honesty.
Give her your time, not your credit card.

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Answer 8

Truth is...sometimes women don't even know what it is that they want. Maybe you're going after the wrong girls. Try to find one that knows who she is, someone who has been through enough relationships to know what exactly will make her happy. Different women are happy with different things. It's hard I know but when you do find a good confident woman who understands what she wants out of life it'll be easier for you to figure out what it is that makes her happy.

Answer 9

Trying to predict human behavior is like predicting the weather. Their are just too many variables. Even the greatest masters of the art of communication still struggle at times. The field of psychology is still in its infancy. We still don't agree why people are adverse to the smell of crap. So how can anyone feel certain they can control and predict people's behavior?

Answer 10

I agree with the person befor me I know from a womens point of view I drive my boyfriend crazy th way I can't make up my mind.I am supriced he hasn't left me after 16 monthsof puting up with me, and My Moods one day I can be as happy as the sky and the next I can be a b****.sorry but there is no way you can get us We Are a totly diffrent kind of humen

Answer 11

Well, we all are something special arent we? ;)

I guess there is no definite answer to that question. For me, what I want is respect, kindness, love, understanding, and basically just everything with a cherry on top. =)