I have been crying myself to sleep for atleast 2 months i know its stupid but I really need help
or advice
I know he is the one I love him soo much
but he only thinks of me as his friend...
I want more than that and i want him to stay..
I can't get him off my MIND
please give me some advice..
2006-07-07 15:51:18 · 12 answers · asked by lala 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him! if you really love him then you can tell him. that is what you heart desires! don't shed your tears anymore! call him, send him a e-mail, send him a love letter, i don't care if you break down him door! TELL HIM RIGHT AFTER YOU READ THIS! its now or never! do you want him to get away! this could be your true love?
now i must tell you that you need to brace yourself if he doesn't like you as must as you like him. so turn it into a secret admire thing. if you don't tell him at all, then you will feel worse than you do right now.
go get um!
***Remeber, it is better to regret something that you have doen then something you haven't done.***
2006-07-07 15:55:20 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Addicted to Love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SLOW DOWN.
I know you hate to hear this, but you almost certainly can't know by now. And even if this were the perfect love, both of you have all of your lives to do something about it. That should cause you to ease a llittle bit. High school sweethearts getting married and lasting forever is a great and romantic thought, and if the two of you can work it out, great for you, but right now your world's are very small. You know relatively few people, and both of you are still growing and changing, both personally and physically. The great things about him that you really enjoy now might drive you completely insane in 5 years. Take your time, think about you choices and just slow down. You have the rest of your life to make good decisions, don't go rushing in to a potentially bad one just because the want is so immediate. Think about your needs first.
2006-07-07 15:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by Evan P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my Lord, you do have miles to go....
You are in 7th grade, enjoy your high emotions, drama and being young - he's just a boy, a simple boy. There will be many more along the road.
So be his friend, if you can, and be content because he may not be ready for you, but if you are close at hand and if he ever is you'll be there, but if he's never ready for you at least you got to be with a really great boy - as a friend.
Pssst - believe it or not, there is another one right around the corner.
2006-07-07 15:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by workingclasshero 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a hobby or focus on playing sports. you are only a seventh grader for goodness sake!! sorry sweetheart i know this is not what you want to hear but if he wanted to be with you he would be! you will meet so many other guys as you get older. don't trip over this one, it's not worth it! you need to worry about getting good grades. besides, you both are at COMPLETELY different points in your life. just think about having fun, date other guys your age!! one day you will look back at this time in your life and wonder why the hell you were trippin over this dude! good luck hon!
2006-07-07 15:58:02 · answer #4 · answered by hatianhottie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't force any one to be anything other than a friend. If he thinks of you just as a friend than leave it at that. i have been there before and i know its not easy but if you push it you'll look like a fool and you'll get hurt. there are tons of guys out there so just try to keep yourself occupied so your not thinking of him all the time and go out have fun and meet new people who knows you might meet some one special who likes you back. Good Luck!
2006-07-07 15:58:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kid....you're just that! enjoy your being in your early teens, once you step foot into adult situations, it just gets tougher and tougher...if this boy likes you and you like him, why not be happy as friends first? what do you want more from him at this stage in your young life? you have so much to explore, to read, to learn, to discover, why rush this journey of life? the world is your treasure to discover, this is your puppy love my dear! and it is a great feeling of intensity, of desire, of dreams, and you should relish it, but recall that you are so young and you have many a milestones to develop and establish....what about your goals? in terms of what do you want to be one day? a teacher, a doctor? you need to create that for yourself first! and above all, love shouldn't hurt...you say you have been crying for 2 mts, sweetie, that's not love....that's pain....so get the focus on you and be brilliant and one day...maybe even this boy will be yours to keep forever...but for now, you need to reprioritize!
2006-07-07 15:57:54 · answer #6 · answered by ria k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should just tell him, but dont necessarily expect a yes. the guy may think you are too young and believe it would ruin his rep if he was dating a 7th grader. sorry, ego comes first for guys in high school
2006-07-07 15:57:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. You are in 7th grade. He is not the one.
But if you really like him. Be honest. Tell him how you feel. Trust me, guys like younger girls.
Good Luck.
2006-07-07 15:56:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are infatuated. love comes from experience. and your too young to have any of that. so just go and have fun being his friend. maybe something else will come out of it when you are older. you know they say that when you get married you marry your best friend. so see if you can be friends first.
2006-07-07 15:59:57 · answer #9 · answered by allofthat7464 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would tell him that u love him and that u want to be more then friends. i know its hard to do but its the easyis way to do it. i am going in to 8th grade if u want to talk to me about it u can talk to me if u want my yahoo address is deere2640@yahoo.com and thats my email to for yahoo
2006-07-07 15:58:51 · answer #10 · answered by REBEL_BOY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋