One? Three? Five? Ten? Twenty? How many dates do you allow a girl to put off having sex before you quit wasting your time with her?
2006-07-07 15:45:30 · 20 answers · asked by Neerdowellian 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a QUESTION folks. It can't hurt you, and it doesn't necessarily reflect my opinions. Get over yourselves.
2006-07-07 15:50:40 · update #1
Oh, and thanks to the GUYS who answered. Ladies, this question is not for you.
2006-07-07 15:52:41 · update #2
It depends on how sure I am that it will eventually happen, and how much I am into her. If she is really hot, and I know its coming then maybe 5 dates at the most.
2006-07-07 15:51:03 · answer #1 · answered by martin h 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want sex, find a professional that offers these services. It is a lot quicker and it does not involve you screwing with your and her mind.
If you want a relationship then have a relationship. What is she gonna do? Not kiss or have sex with your for the next 5 years? That ain't gonna happen. Get over it. Find someone you like and enjoy your time together. By they way, never ask if you can proceed. Just start doing it. If she does not want to do it, she'll stop you. Nothing less sexy than guys that need permission to take control of such delicate issue.
I am not saying RAPE her. Of couse you HAVE to be respectful. But come on, be a kind of guy that you'd want to have sex with if you were a girl.
2006-07-07 22:53:05 · answer #2 · answered by Aram F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depend on girls.
Most time I date girl who is sorta shy and quiet. I usually give them 6 months to a year. If they have a valid reason to put it off I would respect it. If they have no reason or keep talk about how they use to did their ex or something then it will be shorter.
Personally I try hardest to not put any pressure on the girl. Also I find girl who have sex too soon a major turn off. It make me wonder how many guys she has screwed.
2006-07-07 22:49:13 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't count how long it takes to have sex with the girl you like. If you really like her be patient, but if you don't then don't waste her time while she can finds someone that will wait till shes ready. Go find yourself a cheap chick that would put out! Your a fool because at least you know she doesn't sleep around. You don't deserve her if you can't appreciate her patients in having sex!
2006-07-07 22:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by Humming Bird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, if you are only looking for some putting out in a relationship then you arent a man. If a girl doesnt put out that means she has full respect for herself, and if she doesnt want to have sex with her after the tenth date, then shes not interested. But usually girls like to wait after the 4 or 5th date so it really matters on them. :) good luck
2006-07-07 22:49:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is all you want from her, she should consider herself lucky to be rid of you. You have no respect for her or your self. If you consider all females to be on a time line. Then you will end up being a very lonely old man. She is a smart female not to play your games.
2006-07-07 22:50:59 · answer #6 · answered by twentyeight7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should not be dating becouse u want to ahve sex. you should be dating for maybe being a wife someday. if you are just in it for the sex. maybe you should find some hooker some place and stop screwing up girls heads. that is what sex with a girl does.
2006-07-07 22:51:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on the girl. If I'm just looking for booty then maybe after the 3rd or 4th. If I really like her I could wait longer.
2006-07-07 22:49:29 · answer #8 · answered by BWLJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 months tops
2006-07-07 22:49:11 · answer #9 · answered by jimbobb1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. I'm not a guy. But it took my husband 6 months to get into my pants. I wanted to be sure there was something more.
2006-07-07 22:48:10 · answer #10 · answered by nay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋