I'm 14 and going into high school and this really hot guy wants to hook up. He keeps asking me to give him head and I don't know if I want to. I'm kinda scared that I would get some disease.
If I end up deciding to do it, what's the best way to?
2006-07-07 15:35:56 · 22 answers · asked by cinderellagirl360 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO!!!!! DONT DO THIS!!!! IT IS WRONG!!!!! YOU ARE TOO YOUNG!!!!!!
HOW OLD IS HE??? IF 14YR, HE IS TOO YOUNG TOO.
HAVE SEEN THIS ON NEWS WHERE THE GIRLS TOLD THE NEWSPEOPLE THAT THEY DO THIS, AND THEY FELT HORRIBLE AFTERWARDS.!!!!
DONT DO THIS!!!! WAIT TILL MARRIED BEFORE ANY KIND OF SEX ACTS!!!!!
HE ISNT WORTH IT, SHOULD BE WITH SOMEONE THAT RESPECTS YOU AND LOVES YOU!!!!! AND YOU FEEL THE SAME TOWARDS HIM!!!!
2006-07-07 15:41:12 · answer #1 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 15⤊ 3⤋
Okie doke. Your first problem is in the first sentence. You said you are "14 and going into high school." You are going to be pressured to do lots of things you don't want to, and 99% of those things you DON'T have to do. Yeah, you CAN get a disease, and can you honestly tell me that it would be worth it? Nope... you can't. And he could easily be done with you as soon as he gets what you want. Then you have a heartbreak.
Take my advice, I'm 15 and I already made those mistakes. You'll regret it. Good luck!
2006-07-07 22:40:15 · answer #2 · answered by Kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is the only thing he is asking, honey, you are being used. It is strange that his primary interest is not with you, your hobbies, or your personality, but your ability to provide pleasure for him.
Most diseases can be transmitted they way you are talking about. Your local public health centers offer FREE AIDS tests and may provide other screenings.
Ok, so you are going to do it anyway. Be prepared for him to NOT want you, b/c that sounds like the case here. I am sure whatever you think you should do, or how to do it will come naturally enough, its not rocket science.
2006-07-07 22:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by deez3po2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's bad since I'm a guy answering this, but he probably just wants to get in your pants. This is not something to start a relationship from, even if you get a feeling of "love". It's really sad that he's trying to take advantage of you by asking you this.... If you go through with it, watch out for yourself, either don't have sex or use protection.
2006-07-07 22:40:37 · answer #4 · answered by Dr.Clark 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say no! Seems like the only reason he wants to hook up is for getting sex.
And....you are too young to start garbage like that. Whether you consent or not it is still statutory rape.
But, if you do decide to disrespect yourself then make sure he wears a condom--the ones that have no spermicide on them. Make him provide the condoms. No condom, no bj, no exceptions!
2006-07-07 22:43:56 · answer #5 · answered by menndebi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Young lady, do not do as this boy want's. #1 you are too old to be having sex & worry you will get a disease. Talk to a someone as a teacher you respect.
After you do what he wants he wll son ditch you & you end up with a disease.
God Bless & Believe me you do not want to do what he wants
2006-07-07 22:42:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't want to, then don't. Follow your instincts. As for diseases: you're less likely to get an STD from oral sex, but it's still quite possible. It sounds to me that you're probably not ready for the emotional consequences of doing something like this.
2006-07-07 22:39:41 · answer #7 · answered by Jon R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't do it. It is really too early for you. It will be more scary than exciting, mostly because you have not had enough of life experience to appreciate the beauty of human partnership. Wait a little longer. You will remember your first time forever, make sure that it is a worthy experience.
2006-07-07 22:39:59 · answer #8 · answered by Aram F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl! Ok you need to not feed into peer presure! Think about it! Are you doing it for him? Probably! Don't do it cause someone else wants you to! You are young! Wait till your older! It will be more exciting!
2006-07-07 22:38:23 · answer #9 · answered by Ashton's Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy has no respect for you. You should absolutely NOT do it. You will get a bad reputation! Trust me!!! That is the one thing that will give you a bad rep. more than anything. Tell him to get lost. If he really liked you he would want you kiss him, not his ####. Please, respect yourself and don't do it.
2006-07-07 22:40:17 · answer #10 · answered by cyndi71mom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think you want that kind of reputation i saw it happen to a girl in my grade now everyone knows her as the sk@nk dont do it what if he leaves you you might regret it most liekley u will if he cares about you he'll wait
2006-07-07 22:39:59 · answer #11 · answered by lovin this life 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋