2006-07-07 15:26:01 · 7 answers · asked by Susie 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
The first step to healing this intense grief is to go to a therapist, who can help you navigate through your own grief. You may also want to research some support groups for Al-anon.. no I don't think you are an alcoholic, but the relationship with your sister was affected by alcohol. Also, you may want to join a bereavement support group as well. Your local hospital should have this information. Please consider therapy.
2006-07-07 16:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 6⤊ 1⤋
I am sad for your losses. Remember that people grieve in different ways and at different paces. Don't let anyone tell you that you should be able to "get over it" or "just move on"...you take it little by little until you start to get some peace about how to integrate the losses into your life.
I wish you well, and I hope you find your way.
2006-07-07 23:46:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I am very sorry for your loss. I lost both of my parents within 3 months of each other. Give yourself time to grieve. Join a grief counseling group. Surround yourself with people and things that make you happy.
2006-07-08 00:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by Joan D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try meeting people that are dealing with similar griefs you are, or try writing poetry. My grandmother died of cancer two years ago, and its hard to deal with, but she's in a better place and happy. just try and remember the good memories you had with your brother and sister.
2006-07-07 22:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by truelovexo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ur sister had her own destiny of alcohol abuse. Be strong. Dont know about ur brothers intake. Change ur vision of looking at things and realise, its their destiny. Sorry. God Bless U.
2006-07-07 23:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by sk1295 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! I'm very sorry for all the personal loss! I can only pray for you to get through this!
Keep around supportive friends and positive activities.
2006-07-07 22:30:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am so sorry. that would be so hard for anyone to deal with. you will never get over it but you will be able to accept it and go on with your life. please go to a support group. dont let depression set in. you need to talk to others who have been there. god bless you and good luck.
2006-07-07 22:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by tonyatomthor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋