Ladies, what do you think about the "three date rule"?

Question

If you're not giving a guy some kind of sexual activity by the third date, many guys will end the relationship. Are you aware that this "rule" is out there? What do you think of it? Do you usually expect to have some kind of sexual activity by date number three?

Answer 1

I am aware of this so called rule...and honestly...if he isn't giving ME some sort of sexual attention by date 3...I am history!!

Answer 2

By sexual activity are you meaning a kiss or full on down & dirty sex?

I've been around a while, and I was never aware of the 3 date rule. Frankly, it never worked out that way for me... but then again, I was never the type to jump into bed with a guy on the first, or the second or even the third date, so there ya go.

Answer 3

I don't know how accurate your statement that "many guys" do this. I have a lot of guy friends, and no guy I have ever dated abided by this rule.
Any guy who would follow such a "rule" is only interested in sex. If a guy was truly interested in a woman, he would be willing to be patient about the sexual aspect of a relationship.
I don't expect, nor would I engage in, sexual activity by date number three.

Answer 4

Dude. I've got news for you. I usually expect sex within minutes or hours of meeting a girl. I meet her and bring her back to my place for sex.

You need to understand something about women. Women place men into one of three categories....sexual partner, meal ticket, and no way jose. She makes this decision within minutes or even seconds of meeting you. If you fall into the sexual partner category (there are specific behaviors you can display to basically guarentee this) then she will have sex with you right that minute if the situation is right. All women are like this with no exceptions. However, women have a cultural need to not be seen by those around them as a slut. Society assumes that a slut has sex right away because they are so low status that they must give it up or the man will leave immediately. Also, they must have sex with many men because they can't keep a man. What is needed here is a society approved excuse for going back to your place. Supply her with this and she will come back with you. Note, that she knows it is an excuse and expects sex from you right away. If you don't give it to her, she will re-evaluate you as a loser, or worse, a meal ticket.

The only reason a woman makes a man wait is she plans to use him as a meal ticket. She has no attraction to the man and is only in it for the other perks. This is why it is a big mistake to date a woman (dates are for women you've been in a sexual realationship for a long time...only). Basically, she is a society approved prostitute and will try to get as much out of you for as little sex as possible. If she starts giving you alot, that only means she' planning a new role for you as a marital slave. She cares nothing for you and can (and often will) disappear out of your life for little or no reason, even if you have children with her. The three date rule is nothing more than some guys insisting they at least get sex out of the whore they are paying for.

Contrast that with the woman who puts you into the sexual partner category. Not only does she do everything she can to please you, but she actually gives a **** about you. Men who never figure this out, lead pathetic, desperate lives.

Answer 5

Any woman that is lifelong mate material would certainly not be three date sex material.! I pity the guy and girl that have such a shallow relationahip as this then gets married 'cause they are headed for the divorce court in a short time. They have little to no respect for each other right from the git-go.

Panacea,
You have a tough life ahead of you. Poor dude you are. You have no idea how women really feel.

Answer 6

No, i imagine that is between the dumbest "rules" ever invented. that is not even a rule, that's a concepts interest. tell your fool acquaintances that if a woman waits 3 days to call, perhaps that is b/c she doesn't truly like him and she or he become waiting for something extra acceptable to come back alongside. i actually hate even as a guy waits days to call me. that is offensive and it tells me accurate off that he is going to play concepts video games with me. that is going to not in any respect exercising consultation if that is the way you want to start up a courting. on the turn facet, I even might want to confess that an hour is fantastically speedy. from time to time (not continually) that would propose someone is keen to have a b/f or g/f and doesn't truly care about getting to carry close you. good success.

Answer 7

If I get to date three, I probably want to have sex with you.
My question is..are you aware that I am only waiting until the third date so that you don't think I am too easy? If it were for all of the labeling, I would the first night. I know if I am interested.

Answer 8

I do not go for the 3 date rule. Nor have I been held accountable for it, so to speak. It is important for you to be straight up about what your dating style is and what he can expect.
I knew that rule was out there, but it doesnt mean a damned thing to me. I drive according to how I feel, not some crazy rule.

Answer 9

It depends on the guy. Also you can only worry about that if you get to date three. I'm aware of the rule to, and if you are a virgin that shouldn't matter. If you are well outgoing your more likely to go for the kill. I know I would. I like to have fun, but yeah.

Answer 10

NO i dont do that **** the 3rd date i dont even kiss he has to work for it and prove to me hes worth it. And sexual activity? Pa nada no way...im pretty strict on those rules....I wont have sex unless were at a serious state in a relationship, Im talking like intercorse not other things but, if he dont like it, he can go look elsewhere