I have dreams about once a week that he's cheating with another girl. Is this just paranoia or is there significance??
2006-07-07 15:08:39 · 18 answers · asked by In God's Hands 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it means you have some trust issues that you need to talk to your man about.
2006-07-07 15:14:22 · answer #1 · answered by amanda 4 · 10⤊ 3⤋
No it does not mean he is, it means you have a trust issue and you need to find out why. It may be that someone else close to you (parent or other family member?) cheated at one time and so you think it will happen to you. Perhaps you see it so much on TV that you just assume it is in your own backyard as well. Something is probably triggering it. Does he go out somewhere once a week, (card playing, bowling, out with the guys, to the store, whatever)? You may be thinking that perhaps he is really not going there, but cheating, hence the dreams at that time. Do you go somewhere for awhile and wonder what he is up to while you are gone? Could be that. Before you condemn a man who could be innocent and ruin your relationship, determine what is really going on inside of you and why. You may need to talk with him calmly about what is happening to you and why, as it may help the situation if you don't go off about it. Don't say things like you think he is cheating, or accuse him of anything. He may be able to help you work through it. Dreams are there because we are afraid, happy, angry, whatever, and our inner selves are allowing a settling down of our emotions by creating a dream in which we can handle whatever is in it, so that we do not go off the deep end when we are awake. Allow yourself to let it go.
2006-07-07 15:17:57 · answer #2 · answered by still learning at 56 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Speaking from experience gained over, well, yesterday and today actually, I would say it's just paranoia. I had the exact same issue with my boyfriend but realized that, as a chick, I'm just more likely to think too hard about things and overanalyze them. Unless you have clear signs, don't worry about it.
2006-07-07 15:12:00 · answer #3 · answered by krd12 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I do have to say you do make up what you dream..you must be thinking about it while your sleeping to make it up in your dream.. but in all honesty I did dream that my ex was cheating on me with 4 or 5 other girls and he really was.
2006-07-07 15:10:56 · answer #4 · answered by Heather L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you're having dreams. Dreams reflect conscious and unconscious parts of our mind. The dream may be reflecting your natural insecurities, or maybe you really do suspect something and you've been telling yourself otherwise.
Sit down and think about it. And if you really think he is, then talk with him about it, that's the only way to get it resolved.
2006-07-07 15:22:52 · answer #5 · answered by Tomis 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be cheating, but your dreams are totally unrelated. Your dreams indicate insecurity on your part. You feel you can't trust him, so maybe its time to start looking for someone else.
2006-07-07 15:12:53 · answer #6 · answered by Edward J Wolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. The dreams are caused by your Subconscious mind. Which means you're thinking about it too much. Relax.
2006-07-07 15:12:13 · answer #7 · answered by Bad Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope, your just worried in your mind that he will cheat on you. You feel really insecure with him and you DO NOT trust him AT ALL. Thats why you have those dreams.
2006-07-07 15:22:52 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably have suspicions that he is cheating. I had suspicions of my own girlfriend and then had sleepless nights and dreams about it. Best thing is to just ask him how he thinks of you, and come out with what you are feeling...it sure helped me out.
2006-07-07 15:15:52 · answer #9 · answered by Hi_Dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's significant that you suspect he's cheating. You may have a good reason to be suspicious, or you may just be paranoid and crazy.
2006-07-07 15:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by David 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a dream for pete's sake! Quit looking for stuff that isn't there.
Dreams.....honestly
2006-07-07 15:12:40 · answer #11 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋