I know what crack is and what it does and that it's the most addictive drug out there. But he and I don't use a condom when we have sex and I don't know if he can get aids or something from smoking it or some other type of disease. I'm really worried and i don't know what to do. Please Help!
2006-07-07 14:57:08 · 11 answers · asked by justme87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think you can get a disease from a crack addiction, unless he injects it from a shared needle. A crack addict can do a lot of things to get money for that crack and those things could put him (in this case) in a high-risk category.
The first thing you should do is leave him and get somewhere safe. Your safety and health are of the utmost importance.
The next thing you should do is to go STRAIGHT to your doctor and get tested for STDs, AIDS, HIV, everything you can think of.
The third thing should be to get him in to some kind of program.
Do NOT continue to have sex with him, even if it's protected sex.
2006-07-07 15:04:15 · answer #1 · answered by cboni2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok ten to one if he is doing crack, he is doing a lot more. And although he cannot get aids from smoking it..he can get aids from what he might be doing after he smokes it. You should leave because if he ever gets caught you may end up in trouble as well. So leave and save yourself because people might even come after you because of what he does while he gets high.
2006-07-07 15:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by daredevil_girl013 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remember honey....This man that you are with, you truly do not know. Drugs change who you are, you become a different person when using. An addict puts one thing first and that is there addiction. If you really love him insist he goes to rehab. If he can't do that for himself, and for your future, than you need to get out. It's a horrible life to get caught up with a person like this. You may really care for this person, no doubt. Although, if he isn't willing to help himself, than you can't do it for him. He will just drag your life down with his. You should definitely go get tested with your gynecologist. Just to be safe.
I had a best friend who passed away last year. She was 24, married with 2 young children. She got caught up drugs as well, and she is now dead. Now her children have no mommy, and a heart broken daddy. That was my wake up call. Anyway, good luck:)
2006-07-07 15:18:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk him into trying rehab...and get away from him. Nothing good can come from this relationship. You can only get hurt, physical, emotionally.
Get out now.
He can't get disease from smoking it...but he can if he starts using needles, or starts doing things to get his drugs.
Never have sex without a condom...if they say they don't like them, say then they don't like sex with you.
2006-07-07 15:10:09 · answer #4 · answered by jimmy h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you probably did by conserving good bye became the right aspect to do. What you experience now is standard yet you want to stay good and picture of why you left contained in the first position. the sentiments you've now are romantic yet unrealistic. because you concept he became "the single" that is demanding to end questioning that way in one day, yet ultimately, in case you stay faraway from him, you'll locate someone worth of you and look back in the present day of your useful it became a nasty dream. by staying with him or taking him back you would possibly want to damage your own existence. Please do not.
2016-11-30 20:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sugar, try this raise your left hand in the air and wave it back and forth. Let that be the last he sees of you as you drive down the street. Oh you can say bye also.
2006-07-07 15:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by Can do it man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would break up with him. But ask urself seriously, do u want 2 deal w/ a guy on drugs?
2006-07-07 15:03:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN RUN as fast as you can away from him. yes if he uses dirty neddles you can very like if not allready get AIDS or a lot of other sexually transmitted diseases i would also recommend that you go see your doctor and get tested as soon as possible
2006-07-07 15:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by wnruger 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
from my history with the drug i would say no to the getting diseases from smoking it!!! when it comes to you and your boy having sex... that's where you get a dirty UA... if you have random UAs with your job or anything in the sorts it'll cross to you... future info for you!
2006-07-07 15:04:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eathier try and help him into recovery or dump him cuz the odds are he will get you to try it and / or you will like it too
2006-07-07 15:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by a7xkindagirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋