Some people are old-fashioned and they think that it is better to be married correctly as the church says, than to be living with someone you really love and have a family.... What is what really matters?
2006-07-07 14:34:55 · 15 answers · asked by militastarg 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
If you are staying in a bad marriage because of what society would think - then you are sacrificing your own happiness to live in a world you will soon come to resent. It is more important to be in a loving, healthy relationship than to be in one where you are emotionally or physically unhappy - especially if there is a threat to your own safety. The church has corrupt views in a lot of areas - particularly in the marriage area. Why can't Catholic priests get married, to avoid the alternative of the young alter boys who are sometimes tainted for life? You can't live your life according to what others think - or you will never be happy.
2006-07-07 14:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by Susie 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As a man I can say that my wife and I are happier now than we ever were.
Both of us have children from previous relationships we live with our daughter Emily-Rose(5),Ave's ex husband lives next door with Charlotte(20),Jamie(17) and Stephanie(13).Just across the road the eldest Vikki(22) lives with her partner and daughters Amber(5)
My Ex partner Mel lives on the next road with our son Ryan(12) and her daughter Megan(7) and all of them seem to converge on this house at once.That's why I'm sat here at 6 in the morning,it's the only time I get to go on the computer.
2006-07-07 18:17:51 · answer #2 · answered by manthintall1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all that really matters is that you love that person. Why should you get married if you're perfectly happy without it? Marriage works for some people and doesn't for others.
2006-07-07 14:38:12 · answer #3 · answered by babyrooster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a very unhappy marriage... so I left. The only thing was that my ex wouldnt let me take our daughter... but now, we are divorced, we both have new partners and my daughter is happy becuase she see her mum and dad happy..... it was very difficult at first, b ut it has worked out for the best....
2006-07-07 19:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by Lupee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being happily married to someone you really love and have a family........if more thought went into the marriage prior to the wedding, the divorce rate would be much lower.........
2006-07-07 16:59:19 · answer #5 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happy couple brings a happy marriage and family.
2006-07-07 15:30:15 · answer #6 · answered by meljdavis05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better for every1 to b a happy couple and have a loving family. every time
2006-07-08 02:17:11 · answer #7 · answered by herberto48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
happy couple, unless the happy marriage can be sorted out easily
2006-07-07 14:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy couple definitely. Why be with someone you don't love when all you do is hurt each other??
2006-07-07 14:39:30 · answer #9 · answered by angelblueyes200 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither. A happy marriage would be ideal.
2006-07-07 16:09:31 · answer #10 · answered by cabcp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋