Ok, I have this friend, he is 16 and I am 14. And we are really more then friends, He was the first and last guy I had sex with. I like him a lot. I'm pretty sure he likes me he acts like it. But I really don't know what to do. He has a girlfriend but he is breaking up with her this weekend. He tells me he wants a girl he can't have... but he wont tell me who it is. We haven't ever really talked about 'us' and I think hr knows how I feel about him and I think he has feelings for me to. But I don't know what to do. If he dosen't feel for me like that anymore... and I tell him I don't want thigs to be awkward between us. He told me he liked me a lot about 8 months ago.... but I don't know what's up now. Please someone help me I am so confused and I want him so bad.
2006-07-07 14:23:26 · 9 answers · asked by Danielle J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have known him for like 2 years now and jus had sex with him like 3 weeks ago. Do u think it would work to have my best friend (who he is also friends with) talk to him to see if I can talk to him without things being awkward?
2006-07-07 15:15:55 · update #1
Ha ha ha - sounds like your getting used. All for a piece a azz! Grow up girl... And I bet he just come around, fool around with you and then be on his merry way. Hmm, Just like I use to do in my hey day... Don't you know guys lie??? If he liked you he would have never found another GF.. He would have been going for you all the time.. The reason, he don't is cuz he already had you, lil white HO... hahhaha.. I bet he a brotha too. YO YO LIL HO HO! A LIL HO@14... DAMMMMM
2006-07-07 14:27:17 · answer #1 · answered by johncharlesrealty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, 14 is kind of young to be having sex with someone you just THINK likes you. I mean come on now - at least if you are gonna have sex that young it should be with someone you are in an exclusive relationship with. You need to respect yourself more, and respect him.....NOT AT ALL. What did he tell you? That he wants a girl he can't have? Well he had you, and he probably can senses that he could have you again, so that probably rules you out. And what does that tell you about him? 1. That he disrespects his girlfriend by telling YOU he's going to break up with her before telling her, and 2. He's only in it for the game - that's why he so enthralled by someone he "can't have". You need to learn to be on your guard with guys, AT ALL TIMES. Most guys conduct themselves in a way that shows no respect for women, their relationships, etc. Take everything they say with a grain of salt. Before you trust a guy, or trust his intentions, make him prove himself. This will save you a lot of heartache in the long run.
2006-07-07 14:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you just got used by him. First of all you shouldn't be having sex in such a young age because you are not experienced enough. The fact is that you just got used by him for sex. He doesn't really like you at all. I think you should really go ahead in life and forget about him. you should be angry that he used you for sex instead of being together. Leave him behind and move on.
2006-07-07 14:38:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some human beings do have extra themes in there relationships than others. I actually have my honest share yet i do not post them the following. i wager that is only a thanks to vent. possibly they sense as concept they could't communicate with someone(in human being) about it so that they post on the following. even as i'm interpreting multiple the post i imagine to myself hmm mine would not seem that undesirable after all.
2016-11-01 10:08:50 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how can you be sure he's the last guy you're gonna have sex with? or did i just interpret what you said wrongly? anyway, he had sex with you when he already had a girlfriend? what kind of guy is that? he's clearly a cheater and you still had sex with him? i suggest you forget about him, and forget about sex till you're a legal age or something.
2006-07-07 14:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by krysteria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he said he wan'ts somebody who he can't have he means you baba!!Totaly, cause when you said"you don't want things to get awkward between us he might think that he can't have you even though he realy wants you just as bad as you want him why do you think he is braking up with his girlfriend? he wants you baba it is so totaly obveouse that he does...
good luck!!!,
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2006-07-07 14:32:05 · answer #6 · answered by chelsea h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK are you with someone else which would make you unavailable..and he would not be able to have you...so if you are then get rid of your guy when he gets rid of his girl..then you guys can hook up
2006-07-07 14:36:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that's incredible that you're 14 and had sex... What's the matter with you?
2006-07-07 14:27:29 · answer #8 · answered by tommywheelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay you should just ask him if he likes someone and if he says yes. just tell him you like him and if he likes you as much as you like him then hell tell you he likes you too.
2006-07-07 14:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋