why do we cry over a guy?

Question

why do we cry over a guy?
when i listen to a slow jam its always remind me of him and makes me cry so much..... why?

Answer 1

Because it reminds us of a happy time that we once had with that person and now that happy time with that someone is gone, so we cry because we remember that time and want it back and we know it can never come back. So we cry because it breaks our heart over again when we realize that we can't have what we want. But in time your heart will heal and you won't cry anymore and you will realize that you have become a better person because you have learned from that relationship and can use that knowledge on future relationships.

Answer 2

We cry over guys because you think he's the one then bam he's over you....it crushes you...and the slow jam songs remind you of the good times you had or they are singing what you feel inside and it just lets out tears...

Answer 3

Because women have different hormones than men and women are more apt to discuss their emotions more than men are when men get hurt they tend to go out and be mad and get drunk and fight. When we get hurt all we wanna do is sit around and cry at the memories and slow songs and sappy movies and stuff like that. Ice cream helps sit down cry it out with a quart of ur favorite ice cream and it will all ready start to seem better by tommorrow trust me i have done it a million times and i am sure that there are plenty more to come.

Answer 4

you know, sometimes, its not just the woman who cries..... its HUMAN to cry over the end of a relationship, even if your the one ending it. Its HUMAN to sometimes hide it and not let that person see you cry, even though you do in the deepest darkest hours of the night, when no one knows. Sometimes its the only way to take that step to let it out...its the only way to start healing, when the pain pushes to the point when there's nothing left but to let it all out in tears. Then you really can start again.

Answer 5

I never cried for any guy until I met my now boyfriend and when I listen to songs that are so sad or about not being able to have him I would think of him and tears would be rolling down my cheeks. Cuz I wished he was with me having his hands around me.

Answer 6

It just proves that we are real...

That's what sucks about liking someone and then getting dumped or dumping them... Everything reminds us of them...

BUT now is your chance to make new memories so that when you listen to that song you can smile instead of cry

Answer 7

cause we are the ones that feel the pain more we are the ones that feel all the emotions and they run straght too your heart and then too your mind and then follows is a river of tears that the guy we cry over has the cheek too see straight through everything that hurts us

Answer 8

crying is good, for tears would wash away the "hurt" eventually....It happened to me too and in just 6 weeks, it felt a lot better...maybe the tears i shed for him drained off...now i feel so much better and moving on...

Answer 9

oh hun its ok bc when we love we give it all we got, so what u cry its ok it just means ur human ..but just remember u r worth someones time n attention that will love u for u..n not treat u wrong, it will be alright, i promise u

Answer 10

pull yourself together girl!!!

i haven't cried over a guy in 10 years (when i was 16)!!! i refuse to let a guy reduce me to tears.

REMEMBER........No man is worth your tears, and the one who is won't make you cry!