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i am in the 10th grade lots of boys like me but i am sometimes shy around them. what whould you do to get rid of being shy and stuff around boys? pleez help me i will vote the best answer 10 pts. HELP

2006-07-07 13:47:53 · 16 answers · asked by sheistoofurious! 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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you need to realize that you have plenty of wonderful qualities and that any guy would be lucky just to be honored with a "hello" from you. so next time you get shy around boys when they come talk to you just remember why they come talk to you. if a guy is flirting with you, don't be afraid to flirt back. confidence is one of the things that guys look for in a girl, so find out what is making your confidence drop and eliminate it. if you want flirting tips, try going on to myjellybean.com. i can tell by your avator that you are really pretty, so don't be afraid to tell yourself that (in your head) whenever you feel shy behaivor coming. good luck and best wishes always. (-:

2006-07-07 14:01:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I was shy in school too. It's hard to overcome but you have to look at all those guys like one of your friends. That sounds pretty hard to do but if you think about it it's really simple. Guys are just as nervous around girls as we are around them so just be yourself being shy will get you nowhere. I'm sure you have a great personality so why not show it and be proud of it. Get one of your friends to talk to a guy or some guys with you most likely having someone you know there with you will loosen you up somewhat! try it !and good luck!

2006-07-07 20:57:08 · answer #2 · answered by justme87 2 · 0 0

Just be yourself, relax and hang out with people in larger groups (group dating). Once you feel better about yourself and more confident, maybe it'll be easier to talk to boys one-on-one without a bunch of your friends all around you. It's an awkward time right now for you, your hormones are raging and things are uncomfortable, it's hard trying to figure things out, but you will. It just takes time...Just smile and relax!! Try to have some fun and enjoy what's going on right now in your life despite the teenage insecurities. It will get better I promise! Good luck!

2006-07-07 21:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jenna 2 · 0 0

Try group dating to start with, until you feel a little more comfortable around them, it will give you other people to talk to as well and an escape route if the date is really bad, lol.

Try talking to the boys a little more on simple issues, school, sport, etc. Over time you will see it's not so bad, they are only human.

2006-07-07 20:53:19 · answer #4 · answered by having_a_blonde_day_lol 4 · 0 0

Just be yourself...

That's fantastic that all these guys like you, so self confidence should be a breeze!!!

Show off that self confidence and join in on conversations, but only if you know what they are talking about.... Speak up and be heard.... Smile and don't be a downer in any situation... Guys love happy, confident girls and once you can accept the fact that you are the centre of attraction, then speaking to guys will be easy!

Good luck, and most importantly, have fun :)

2006-07-07 20:52:07 · answer #5 · answered by kristijay99 3 · 0 0

Well you could just be yourself, sometimes that is what guys like (shyness)or however the only way to get over your shyness is to get to know them slowly and as you talk to them more and more you will realize that there is no need to be shy Once you know some one you find that you are not as shy as you really think you are...Good luck...shunnydunn

2006-07-07 20:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by shunnydunn 2 · 0 0

No matter how old you get you still get nervous around men. Become comfortable with yourself so that if you make a mistake you won't take it like the end of the world and will be able to laugh about it.

2006-07-07 20:51:22 · answer #7 · answered by nadia m 3 · 0 0

well first you should always know that having the attention of a boy is not always a good thing!
but you should take you teeth off your tounge and speak.
open up to them
you don't have to act like them just get in there head talk about the team or the game
and ACT LIKE A GURL

2006-07-07 20:54:29 · answer #8 · answered by arcade_red07 1 · 0 0

your in 10th grade. Your hormones are going wild and his evenmore. Just relax. It will happen naturally. My first experience was until I was 18 years old. Just chill out.

2006-07-07 20:52:49 · answer #9 · answered by Payne 3 · 0 0

just uses your eyes as a weapon of flirting when you see them go past don't do anything physical with them be talkative but in a sexc way once you get used to doing that they will want you more a your shyness will slowly fade

2006-07-07 20:53:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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