I feel like my girlfriend of several months has lost interest. I think that she enjoyed the difficult time it was for her to catch me, and now when I am finally into her, she is no longer interested.
Is it possible to make this relationship work and if so, would creating more distance (forcing her to catch me again) or giving her more attention (increasing calls/texts/ims) be the best way?
Please help.
2006-07-07 13:47:24 · 7 answers · asked by joshuawerbeck 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you're feeling she's lost interest, you're probably 20 miles behind the relationship. it's over. make sure you're the one that dumps her first, and move on to the next one. plenty of women out there.
2006-07-07 13:51:12 · answer #1 · answered by marabierto1961 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think if you drift apart for like a little bit she'll notice and be scared and you might leave her and stuff and when she's feeling that way she'll probably try to talk to you more and pay more attention to you. Anyways when shes starts to pay more attention to you, stop creating distance and you hav to start showing again that ur really into her and get more close to her.
But this method might fail if she doesnt seem to pay attention to you at all or just drift apart more. If this happens talk to her friend and find out how shes feeling and if shes losing interest in you, then you can either end it or just get her back by paying more attention, and giving her gifts... it depends on how much you like her and how much ur willing to do for her
Some girls dunt know what kind of guy they have until they lose them
2006-07-07 13:54:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what you want. i, personally, would slowly back away and let her decide. While she makes up her mind, you can decide whether you really want a relationship like that or you want something that's actually mutual. Then there's the chance that she really has lost interest. Either way, if you back off too abruptly, chances are she is going to see it as a game and play right along. If that's what you want, then go for it. You sound like you want something more stable, though.
2006-07-07 15:05:28 · answer #3 · answered by the1arbitor 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like the thrill of the chase ended and you aren't the challenge you should be with her. I could give you a list a mile long, but the bottom line is you have to make her chase you a little.
Being agressive is just going to drive her away.
2006-07-07 13:51:32 · answer #4 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just seems like giving her attention really isn't working so give her space and if she comes back to you then she still wants you but if she doesn't show any interest then she is letting you go so just move on. there are so many other girls out ther and you are young i take it so don't just settle for one person so early in life.
2006-07-07 13:55:21 · answer #5 · answered by sharethalove 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself do you want it to work? if you do work at it. If not end it.
2006-07-07 14:09:28 · answer #6 · answered by mcspaner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no best way but "Being yourself"
2006-07-07 13:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by bea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋