Tell him how you feel. Otherwise he doesn't know why you're asking the questions... tell him you feel you need to, and that you can't trust him when he keeps lying to you. *My boyfriend does this too* Sometime you're gonna have to start trusting him to have a good relationship, and if you can't do that then maybe he isn't for you. Good luck!
2006-07-07 13:34:17
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answered by babyrooster 2
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LEAVE HIM!!!!!! You can do better, read your question and ask yourself what you would say if it was someone else asking it. Once a liar always a liar, some people just lie all the time. Honesty is the most important part of a relationship, and the longer you are in it and put up with it,the more it will happen and it will get worse. It may be hard to break up after 4 years, but believe me, once you give yourself time to get over it, you will be happy you did. You won't regret it. You can and will do better. You don't want to marry and try to have a future with someone like this.
2006-07-07 21:02:38
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answered by lfwtea3 2
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I BE LIVE THERE IS NO LOVE, NO MORE BECAUSE AFTER SEVERAL YEARS OF RELATION THIS GUY IS BEEN LYING TO U LIKE SOME ONE SAID THE REAL LOVE IS FOUNDED IN TRUST BUT U HAVE TO DECIDE AND THINK WHAT IS THE BENEFIT U ARE GETTING FROM THIS RELATIONSHIP IF U FEEL U ARE WAISTING TIME THE BEST THING TO DO IS TO TERMINATE ALL THOSE YEARS OF LIES AND LET HIM GO MAY BE SOME ONE BETTER IS IN HIS WAY FOR U
2006-07-07 20:46:17
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answered by lovely lonely 1
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i was in the same situation a long time ago.. leave while you can.. or your just gonna put yourself in a deeper hole.
you can't have a relationship when you guys can`t trust each other.. its like fighting everyday..making up.. then fighting again over the same type of thing.. not going to work out.
i was in a relationship for 3 yrs.. in somewhat of the same situation.. but after awhile i got fed up and left. been a year, and i just recently got a new bf.. im happier then ever..the only reason why i probably stayed with my ex before was b/c i thought that he was the "one" since we were together for so long..its a pretty naive thought but truth is im alot happier then i was before! now my ex comes crawling back telling me he loves me.. hah f that.
2006-07-07 20:39:48
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answered by Prestigious 1
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A relationship is built on trust, and if your boyfriend is not willing to see the error of his ways and commit to fixing them, then a serious relationship is something unrealistic. I hope that your boyfriend can admit to his wrongs, because if he really loves and cares for you, he will try to fix it. Have a serious talk with him about it and see what he says. good luck.
2006-07-07 20:37:01
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answered by caitymercede 4
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I was married to a guy you lied daily. its not easy to leave, but it is what i had to do because everything out of his mouth was a lied. if he gets mad it is because he is not telling the truth. don't put your self throw any more pain.
2006-07-07 20:35:52
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answered by melmae702 1
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If it were me and I could not trust the guy.. I would be out of there. Life too short to be miserable and full of worry. Good Luck!!
2006-07-07 20:35:25
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answered by Peanut Butter 5
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sure there is. dump him. cant have a boyfriend who constantly lies to you. makes no sense. the idea is to have a partner you can trust. get rid of him and move on to a real man.
2006-07-07 20:34:29
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answered by marabierto1961 5
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leave him, it's not worth it. if you can't trust him there's nothing. but if you really love him try to work it out, say: "if you keep lying, i don't think i can be with you anymore, because i feel like everyhting you say to me is a lie. i love you but i can't trust you."
2006-07-07 20:35:30
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answered by mmbliss111 2
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don't waste your time... life is to short.... you can't have a relationship with no trust....it will drive you crazy... your headed for a life of misery don't wait get out...
2006-07-07 20:49:21
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answered by Anonymous
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