ok so i have really long hair, and i don't like to wear it down, and i asked my mom i could cut it she said ok ,but my grandma said no you are not going to cut it, if i do shes going to be really sad and shehas diabetis.
2006-07-07 13:24:30 · 24 answers · asked by kricely_dany 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Hair
I had long hair and I could sit on it when I was younger, my father would not let me cut mine either, when I was 17 I cut it out of spite, I wish I hadn't now. I have a friend that has a little girl that is going through kemo therapy and now I wish I could give it to her. Locks of Love is a great place to donate your hair to. I'm sure your grandmother would be proud of you for that. Your hair does grow back.
2006-07-07 13:32:56 · answer #1 · answered by eeyorea1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to your grandma about how unhappy
you are at this time about your appearance and that you would
really like to cut it to help youself feel happier.
I understand how long hair is because my hair is just pass
my shoulders and there are not that many hair styles out here
for people with long hair. You really are kinda limited. However,
if she does not go for it and if you have not done so all ready,
try to go for that ( choppy "long" layers) or maybe two tone it to
give it that pop star look!
2006-07-07 20:38:40 · answer #2 · answered by thcoob 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, I had long hair up until 1 ago. I always had it up, but would wear it down at christmas time. When I cut it off, all six grandparents and my dad were really mad at me. Geesh it was just a foot and a half of hair. They'll get over it, plus, now that it's shorter (shoulder length) I wear it down almost every day. And that makes everybody happier.
2006-07-07 20:52:43 · answer #3 · answered by Training Chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if it's really long and you never wear it down, I would get it cut in a cute, short style. Plus, all that long hair gets really hot in the summer time! And you could donate it like one of the guys said.
2006-07-07 20:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by prettyfreek15 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is your hair, and you should be able to cut it, of course. Your grandma may have diabetes, but she should be able to control her emotions. To be honest, nobody should be getting upset about a hair cut; it's ridiculous. If she likes long hair so much, she can grow her own or get a wig. Do not worry too much about what your grandma thinks of your hair, simply because she has diabetes.
2006-07-07 20:29:35 · answer #5 · answered by Iamnotarobot (former believer) 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I love long hair. So do a lot of guys I know. So why bother cutting it. On the other hand, if you really want to, it's YOUR hair, not your Grandma's.
2006-07-07 20:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by Nathan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have really long hair to and when I cut it my mom was a little upset but hey its just hair... she got over it and it grew back... i missed my hair when i cut it.... i cut it really short well a little above my shoulders... and I suggest that if u do cut it try not to do it so extreme... and its your hair you have to deal with it and not anyone else... if thats what u really want to do u should talk to your grandma and explain to her your reasons for cutting it....but in reality its just hair... it grows back and I understand your concerns for her... its all about respect... think about it...
2006-07-07 20:30:44 · answer #7 · answered by mrs_igartua 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well jsut do whatever you decide to do! tell both of them it's your hair and you can do what you want with it! And If you keep it long and dont like wearing it down, then style it! Put it in a messy bun, cute ponytail, or get a perm if you think that would look good! Even dying it or highlights could change that! Hope I helped, good luck! :-)
2006-07-07 20:28:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a Grama and have a granddaughter with very long beautiful hair. If she came to me and wanted to cut it off ...I would be sad. BUT it is not my head, I don't have to take care of it! If she were to tell me she were donating it to children with cancer ,I would cry. I love her so much - with or with out hair! Hair does not make her more or less to me. You go talk to your Grama and tell her how you don't want to upset her, and what you want to do. Talking to Grama is not going to tip her Diabetis in any way, if she uses that it's underhanded. Tell her how much you love her, melt her heart. She will change her mind. She loves you!
2006-07-07 20:50:22 · answer #9 · answered by Beamer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say do what ever you desire--it's not anyone else's hair but your own. Sure if you go ahead and cut it your grandma may be 'sad' but eventually she'll learn to accept it--there are more important things in life to worry about than hair length. It's not like she's going to disown you if you do it and if she does that's pretty messed up.
2006-07-07 20:36:05 · answer #10 · answered by Monica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋