Is it ok to kiss your ex?

Question

Weve been friends for 5 years and we went out for 5 months and then he broke up with me because we fought to much but he says he still loves me he just doesnt want to hurt me again & we kissed the day after we broke up and we still do he just broke up with me last week

I still like him and he says he still likes me

Answer 1

ask yourself that question

Answer 2

Sounds like the relationship isn't quite dead. If you're still allowing him to kiss, and he's still kissing, well after the official 'break up' date, then I feel that the relationship may still have a heartbeat yet. Yes, it's in the intensive care unit on life support (the kissing machine. lol), but it ain't dead yet.

The ball is in your court now, young lady. The ultimate decision is yours. If you want a relationship with him, keep on kissing and see what happens. But, If the relationship is truly to end, you MUST stop kissing him. Otherwise, the guy will just keep on comin' on back for more kissing whether he really wants a relationship with you anymore or not. Something to keep in mind.

Answer 3

Likeing you Kissing you or even makine it with you done mean the guy wants to spending the rest of his life with you..Maybe hes smart enough to see you always fight and it wouldnt work being around each ouher all the time???( you said it we Fought to much ) Theres your ans your looking for.. Quite fighting.. then maybe.. As for kissing, have a ball, nothing wrong with that...LOL ROB

Answer 4

you know that happened to my friend and they kept on breaking up and getting back together like... at leasat 10 times! They're okay now and it really seems like they are made for each other
so i think there's a real good chance that you two can get back together and its okay to kiss ur ex as long as u dunt have a boyfriend... just make sure that ur not expecting too much until u two are sure

Answer 5

you guys broke up for a reason when you kiss and hold hands its just the same as being together if he really loves you he would have not broken up with you and figured out a way to cope with the fighting

Answer 6

I kissed my ex lots of times after we broke up. Our relationship was much better when we weren't together...haha. As long as you are not kissing him while you are with someone else, I don't see the issue.

Answer 7

Well as long as your both being fair to yourself and others around you. Go on and kiss the boy. Understand that there is a thin line, be prepared, good or bad.

Answer 8

No! There must be a pretty good reason you broke up. It's either together or apart, there is no no mans land in the middle. You'll end up in a fine mess possibley.

Answer 9

If you still kissing him and viceversa. I think both of you still love each other! And that is ok!..If that is your case, go ahead and love each other!...Unless you are seeing someone else, are you?...or maybe he is seeing someone else. Well in that case you have to separated and be just friends. The most important thing is RESPECT!

Answer 10

well when you kiss him your showing him how weak you are against his love (no offence) and when he knows he has you hell ask you for favors youll do them and think its just a favor but one will turn into two and two will turn into fiffty more trust me im speaking from experience and the sooner you let him go the sooner youll feel a little better :)
ps.if you argued a lot before there is sure to be more where that came from

Answer 11

If you kiss your ex, it could possibly bring up feelings and that could cause a problem. Is it really worth it? Hmm..maybe you aren't over your ex like you thought.