Can I find the right man?

Question

I've been single for a while now and I'm waiting for the right man to come along. I think I'm pretty but why don't men ever talk to me? I'm real modest and never like to talk bad about people, I'm just trying to be myself. Guys always stare at me like they want to say something BUT they never do.

Answer 1

Honey you will find him in the most unexpected time and place.
It just takes time. Don't freet on it.

Answer 2

There is nothing wrong with you, just the guys that you are coming in contact with. You need a change of scenory. Modest is great, stay that way. The guy that you meet will be great for you, he will not be seeing the so called merchandise before hand. Stay the way you are and just wait for the right guy. Still some good ones out there.

Answer 3

Here are some helpful hints on how to get us to talk to you (women in general)...

1) Smile
2) Smile at US :)
3) Make eye contact
4) Make eye contact while smiling at us (noticing a pattern yet? ;)
5) Ask us for help...it can be something super easy or something you actually need help with. We actually really like helping cute chicks.
6) Compliment us. I know it sounds amazingly silly, but you giving us a compliment or two opens up the door for us to return compliments. I promise you, if we find you nice/attractive, we'll return with a compliment of our own.
7) Ask us what we think about something Sports or Beer related. This is one of the few things many of us know entirely too much about. We'll think it's cool that you're A) Interested about either of these topics, even if we think you're faking it, and B) Flattered that you would look to us as an authority on either one of these topics
8) After briefly talking to us in a store or a similar surrounding, leave the store. Then come back in and say "I know this is really random, but what do you say we get a cup of coffee?" This works, as my girlfriend used it on me to pick me up ;)
9) Wear clothes that show off your body without making you look trashy. Skirts and dresses are always better than just about anything else. Don't get me wrong, I'm not telling you to wear hoochie skirts. They don't have to be short skirts at all. Just shows us you're a woman who is put together and likes to look good. Short shorts are another nice alternative if you just loathe dresses or skirts for some reason.
10) Play with your hair. It's an attention grabber as it's motion that we catch out of the corner of our eye. Not so much that you're looking like the stereotypical dumb blonde, but just being girlie. Then you can try to do the smiling / eye contact thing.

Hoped these were helpful, and if nothing else, somewhat amusing :)

Cheers,


Mike

Answer 4

Start getting out more. The right man doesn't always come along sometimes you have to go out and find him. Try going to church functions if you are a believer, join volunteer groups like habitat for humanity or just get involved in your community. Good luck.

Answer 5

So if you have that confidence that sounds like you do, why do you feel the need for them to start the conversation? You start it and you'd be surprised just how warm and inviting you'll make them feel. Men are probably thinking the same thing you are " she stares at me and looks like she wants to say something but she never does" See what I mean? :) I dare ya to do this as soon as possible and let me know how it works, if you don't have anything to say, watch what he does for interest even if it's wearing a tshirt with his favorite band :) Men love compliments just as much as women do. :)

Answer 6

Don't worry about it. Just stay yourself and someone will approach you in time. But if you do find someone just go after him anyway. Don't always wait for him to make the move. Because sometimes you need to go after something you want.

Answer 7

Have you tried just going up and saying 'Hi!' to any of the guys staring at you?

Sometimes that's all it takes to break the ice.