Is this Safe and Sane?

Question

I've been single for about a month now- out of a 4 year relationship. Anyways I'm loving it. I'm 20 and just living the single life- going out with the girls, staying out late- having fun. I met someone one night out while dancing- he saved me from this totally ugly pervert who kept trying to dance with me. Anywho- we exchanged numbers and have been talking for about 1 week now. Problem is- he's from FL and just visiting friends here in Cali. My girls and I drove up one night to spend time with him and his friends at the beach- we ended up walking on the beach, talking, and kissing- it was great. He leaves next weekend to go home to FL. Now I've only been with one person sexually and I want to experiment. I want to have fun u know- safe fun. Everytime i talk to him i just get this feeling- should I act on my feeling- like taking it to the next level before he leaves, or just let him go? I'm scared of catching an STD but I don't want to regret not doing it either. Help.

I'm the type of person who thinks everything through twice or more. I have protection and so does he- so whats wrong?

Answer 1

As long as you both have protection , you're both adults I'm assuming? Then go ahead and have some fun. Be cautioned though that this could possibly lead to deeper feelings and he does have to go home....

Answer 2

Well sounds like youve made up your mind.. Your a grown woman.. just make sure you use protection. Maybe ask yourself if your ready for casual sex with no strings attached its a big step.. Ya know your prob never going to see this guy again. If your the to get feelings for someone easlily i would say no but you know yourself better than anyone. Sounds like you thought this through alot. so I am sure you will make the best decision for you.

Answer 3

Use a condom. Im 23 and still loving being single.

Answer 4

Screw his brains out.