i'm still a virgin and im not ready to lose it yet, i thought he was fine that we aren't sexually active, but now i duno wot 2 fink!
2006-07-07 13:05:21 · 11 answers · asked by DanniG 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well if he respects u like a true b/f should then i think u should tell him that when he calls u things like that it makes u uncomfortable and or just tell him what u feel! if he still moves on with the name calling or w/e u wanna call it then he doesn't respect u or Ur feelings!
2006-07-07 13:09:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is only a start. Next he will tell you that if you really love him, you would prove it by going all the way. A person, male or female, if they truly love you then they will wait until you are ready, if at all, without pressuring you to do it. There is an old saying, why by the cow when the milk is free?
2006-07-07 13:16:35 · answer #2 · answered by george 2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on what you constitute a virgin...
I've known girls that will take it in the back side... but want to remain a virgin for marriage. /boggle
If you're going hot and heavy, but penetration is the only thing you won't do... its a bit silly and time for a re-evaluation.
I'd suggest you just talk to him about it.
Standard communication stuff.
1) Tell him that it hurt your feelings.
2) Let him know what you are and are not comfortable doing.
3) Ask him for what he wants to see happen. (In your boundaries of course.)
2006-07-07 13:11:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you either need to turn him on less, or he needs to put up with the frustration, or you need to start giving him hand jobs or something similar (in which case I'd say he owed you the same, if you want it).
2006-07-07 13:10:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, don't give it to him, it will drive him nuts to the point he will want it so bad he will do anything for you...if you're not ready than wait till you are..
2006-07-07 13:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by crzyernie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything you don't wanna do. If you don't wanna have sex than don't. But there are other things you could do if you don't want to be called a pricktease. but only if you're comfortable to do it.
2006-07-07 13:10:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him on the phone and describe how the sweat glistens off your naked body
2006-07-07 13:09:50 · answer #7 · answered by Divine_Gesture 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, ask him if your decision bothers him..or if he was just joking. If your not ready then don't let anyone change your decision for you...that is yours to keep intil you are ready.
2006-07-07 13:08:13 · answer #8 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he sounded angry when he said that i would be Pissed off. I know my BF would never say that to me!
2006-07-07 13:09:33 · answer #9 · answered by M.A.M. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I wouldn't take him seriously when he says that.
2006-07-07 13:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by merlin_steele 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋