I want her to be at my wedding but she is extremely rude. She always farts out loud and talks like a sailor around my parents. She also almost got me fired for coming in with me to get my check. ( I didn't invite her in with me) I love her to death but she's just to rude. What should I do?
2006-07-07 12:59:40 · 11 answers · asked by dafunkypunka 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
My friend and I have the same problem, and I handle it meanly. I mean, I know it's mean but she understands it, and I have to apologize constantly because I know this is witchy... But I just tell her straight on. The truth will set you free, cause she chews with her mouth open all the time, and I just tell her something like, "Umm, can you chew with your mouth closed? I prefer not to see what you're eating and-slash-or what I'm eating in somebody elses mouth." So it makes her laugh, but I'm also telling her that it's disgusting. I sound like I'm training her don't I, I hate it when I do that. Just keep in mind that you'll probably need patience and a lot of it!
2006-07-08 19:43:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to say
Oh great ignorant one if you wish to be at my wedding you must act like a human being that has dignity and demeaner.
No farts, belching, swearing, eating with your hands, peeing standing up, or any other rude display.
If you feel you can not then please do not come.
It is my wedding day and I can't have it ruined friend or no friend
2006-07-07 20:04:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would break it to her gently, tell her that its gross to fart out loud and not to talk to people especially your parents like that. I would just be as honest as possible with her and if she can't take it then obviously she won't change. But if she cares and you tell her how rude she is she might actually change. Good Luck hun...and Hang in there...
2006-07-07 20:03:13 · answer #3 · answered by crzyernie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is your best friend, you wont care if she is rude. If I were she... and you my best friend, I would hate you if you dont invite me to your weeding.
Just be in her shoes. Invite her, and talk about her manners, let her to know that her best gift for your wedding would be she being like a lady... a sacrifice for the best friend... and dont expect miracles.
2006-07-07 20:29:47 · answer #4 · answered by marisa e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say:
Listen, I love you dearly, and I really want you to be at my wedding. Please, I have to ask that you tone it down and please be on your best behaviour. I really want to remember this day as being perfect.
You could also buy her an etiquette book, but that might anger her.
You just must have a heart of gold to put up with all that and still see the good person inside. Kudos to you.
Congrats and good luck in your wedding and marriage!
2006-07-07 20:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Print this out and show it to her. First tell her that you love her to death but you have something really hard to tell her and then give her the printout.
2006-07-09 04:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u should tell her about it an dif she gets mad and dont wont to be friends then she wasnt your friend but here again i go with the thing where i say i am here just to tell u what i THINK so that dosent do much good
2006-07-07 20:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way around this...you have to tell her that you want your wedding day to be special and she will ruin it unless she "chills out".............BUT you have been dealing w/ it for awhile and chances are she isn't going to change...so you are going to have to deal w/ it for as long as you are going to be her friend.
2006-07-07 20:04:28 · answer #8 · answered by SouthernKNC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is not the kind of person i would want in my company her mama and daddy should have raised her better they should have moved out the trailer park are project so she could have better morals and respect for others
2006-07-07 20:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her nicly that she needs to act more lady like and if she needs help u can help her
2006-07-07 20:04:28 · answer #10 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋