YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-07 12:57:30
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answered by Just Me 6
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Let's see, do you have a good job with good health insurance and other benefits? Does the father? Are you a responsible person? (By the way, the mere fact that you are having sex, and still living in your parents home, proves you are not). Is the father? Do you live in your own home or apartment that you pay the bills and rent on? Does the father? Are you being financially supported by another person and not yourself? Do you make enough to pay the bills and support you and a baby? Have you completed at least your senior year in high school? Are you intelligent enough to know the dangers of having unprotected sex today are not just the risk of getting pregnant?
If you have answered these questions with at least 3 NO's, then the answer to your question, is a resounding: YES!
2006-07-21 09:28:33
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answered by classyjazzcreations 5
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absolutely not. HOWEVER... I do not recommend having a baby at that age. As soon as a girl menstruates, she can become pregnant, but in my opinion, she is not mentally ready, not financially responsible to care for herself, let alone another human being. You did not state whether you are asking because you are pregnant, want to become pregnant, have a friend in that situation or are just plain curious, but.... if you are or are thinking of becoming pregnant, please give the baby up for adoption. Your baby will have a good home. Again, if you are, take REALLY good care fo yourself while you are pregnant (eat the right foods, take your vitamins and NEVER miss a doctor's appointment). I'm telling you this because I am 32 years old with a child entering high school tihs year. I'm not bragging, and even though I wasn't 13 when I was pregnant, I was still too young. I had big dreams of going to Oregon State to become a psychologist, but I ended up pregnant instead. I love my daughter with all my heart, but I wish I would have waited. I had to drop out in the 11th grade, even though I got my GED before the end of 11th grade was over (I just wanted to be able to say I completed the 11th grade at least), and I had to work really hard, two jobs, to take care of my child. I lived on my own, with her father, right after she was born, and even though we made it, it was a struggle. It was really hard for me to see my friends graduate and I was standing in the bleachers holding my daughter with tears streaming from my face because I wanted that to be me. BUT... you have to make your own choices. I say I wish I would have waited because I would have liked to have gotten my degree so right now I would have a "good" job and be able to afford all the luxuries that she deserves. Anyway, I hope you are just curious and not in that predicament :) BUT... if you are, good luck.
2006-07-21 08:55:10
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answered by Anonymous
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Yes a baby would take away someones childhood. How can someone teach a baby things that they haven't experience or learned. The baby will be cheated and so would that young parent. I have my first at 19 and lost out on my young adult years. Your life isn't your anymore and the baby runs the "show". I don't regret the way my life went but I think that I would have waited if I knew what I know now.
2006-07-21 03:03:10
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answered by Jade 4
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yes, not only do you have a better chance at having a premature baby with lung, heart, and spinal cord problems, you are also in the top age group to have a baby with down syndrome. girls who have a baby at such a young age also are at a very great risk of cancer, not ever being able to have a baby again, and even death. besides all of that, you will be in terrible pain, with gross stretch marks all over your body, and thats just if you make it through. and, you would put terrible strain on your whole family, because no matter if you think you are ready at your age, your really not, you wont be able to get a job and support the baby, so everyone else will have to do it for you. no matter how much you think your ready, just remember, a baby deserves more than you have to offer right now, so if not for you, wait for the babies sake. a 13 year old needs plenty more time to grow up and learn how to be a parent before they have to become one, be a kid.
2006-07-09 10:22:34
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answered by drvn2kaos 2
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I think 13 is too young to even have sex, much less get pregnant. If you have already had sex and are pregnant, there is help available. If you're not, be thankful! And for goodness sake, either don't have sex anymore for a few years or at least talk to someone about birth control!!!!
2006-07-21 08:04:21
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answered by jobug 4
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Yes it is too young. I have a 14 year old daughter and I would die if she ever got pregnant before 20 or 21
2006-07-07 13:03:54
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answered by jenn 2
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Thirteen is most definitely too young to be pregnant. You're still in you're teenage years. I say if you're not married and can't support yourself don't have a child. Your parent(s)/ guardian won't like that you're having a child either, because they would have the burden of the child. On top of it I would recommend not to get pregnant until at least your twenties. Be honest with yourself and ask yourself are you ready to spend the rest of your life with this person. Also, you shouldn't be having sex at that age anyway with or without protection, because of the risk of sexually transmitted diseases if your planning on having other partners other than this guy. Please make the right choice. You will be in my prayers.
2006-07-08 14:15:56
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answered by Jim 2
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wow...what is this world coming to....
Please talk to an adult you trust about this. I suggest maybe a school counselor or look in the yellow pages for some sort of hotline for pregnant teens. 13 is WAY too young to be having children. Physically and emotionally.
2006-07-07 15:32:55
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answered by Jessie 2
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As far as getting pregnant, you can get pregnant as soon as you get your first period. But take it from a mother of 3, I started having babys at 15 and I missed everything, Not to mention I did not know how to deal with the fact that I could not put anything I wanted to do first...That baby is your life, you do whatever you have to and whatever that baby needs before you do ANYTHING else. I would have waited if I would have known then what I know now.....Being a teen parent is not at all a Thrill, it is hard hard work.....
2006-07-07 13:33:37
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answered by Skywolf's Princess 2
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YES, do you even need to ask that? You can't even get a job at 13, how will you take care of a child. Of course it's too young.
2006-07-11 07:34:41
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answered by guineasomelove 5
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