no matter what we talk about she always brings up at least 1 of them,she is 28 years old and has had 7 boyfriends before me(that she told me) i just dont know what to do about it and i think i feel disrespected by her comments,for instance today we drove by a house and she said -you can actually see our (exes)old house from the back yard of that house,now am i crazy or is this not normal..maybe i am over reacting but it is everyday,some little comment ..please help
2006-07-07 12:54:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOUR GIRLFRIEND IS WHAT I LIKE TO CALL ALWAYS ON A REBOUND ! YOU NEED TO GET OUT OF THIS RELATIONSHIP BECAUSE YOUR JUST GOING TO KEEP BEING HURT. SHE CANT POSSIBLY CARE FOR YOU IF HER MINDS ON SOMEONE ELSE. BESIDES SHE IS TO OLD TO BE PLAYING HIGH SCHOOL GAMES! DONT EVER BE NUMBER 2 TO ANYONE
2006-07-07 13:06:21 · answer #1 · answered by concerned mom 1 · 6⤊ 2⤋
Tell her you don't like it that she mentions her exes and if she keeps talking about them than I guess she just wants to give you hints that she had other guys so if you were to leave her than it would be easy for her to move on. seven is quite a small number. I went out with ten guys and I'm just nineteen.
2006-07-07 20:01:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her how her talking anout her exs makes you feel. You can't expect her to just know!
2006-07-07 19:58:44 · answer #3 · answered by cowgirl91 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she is just sharing her experiances with you. i dont think she means to disrespect you she just wants to talk about her past. i do it too and my boyfriend sometimes says the same thing but i just remind him that im not comparing im just sharing my past and that usually helps him. maybe you could ask her " are you comparing me or sharing your past with me? "
2006-07-07 19:59:04 · answer #4 · answered by ziggunerin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably just testing you to see if you'd get jealous...Of course sometimes it's the unresolved feelings or hurt.
Talk to her about it.
2006-07-07 20:00:00 · answer #5 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's just not that into you.... if she still talks about them, she's not quite over them.
2006-07-07 19:59:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her how you feel. She dosent mean to hurt you, I'm sure.
2006-07-07 20:06:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋