Why aren't more (non-black or African American) men interested in dating African American women?

Question

Often I see African American men dating other women outside their race. However it rare that I see African American women dating outside their race. Are other nationaities scared to date real SISTA girl? What is it about black women that intimidates other nationalities so?

Answer 1

i not only dated them i even married one but it only lasted 5 years

Answer 2

I think that stereotypes have a major role in this. African Americans are said to be loud and obnoxious, making them look like people that you do not want to associate yourself with. However, the majority of us are fortunate to know that not every single African American is like this. I have met many who are very well-mannered. Also, past experiences have a lot to do with this problem. Perhaps many latinos have had bad experiences; my grandparents, for example, were unfortunate to have had horrible experiences with an African American couple that lived next-door to them. They quickly began to dislike all African Americans. The couple soon moved out and they were at peace again, but those same negative views were stuck with them until they met and befriended another African American couple. I'm positive that there are latino men that are interested in black women. And also, it isn't unpopular or unacceptable for latinos to date outside of our ethnic background; my ancestors came from El Salvador and I have many relatives who have married outside of their ethnic background. I believe that the older generations have gone against dating another race, but all of that is beginning to change.

Answer 3

There you go putting people in groups again. What if I only liked women with blue eyes? Does that mean I'm a racist or scared of a brown eye? The only woman that intimidates me is the one I'm in love with.

Answer 4

I'll tell you why: because other Black women would stroll up to my Haitian born girlfriend and proclaim "Traitor!"
Six yrs after our relationship ended, I am still steamed.

Answer 5

Have you ever seen any of the many dating shows on TV when black couples date? Invariably, the female complains because she wasn't "treated like a queen" - often complaining because the male didn't bring her a dozen roses (instead of the one he did bring). She will then complain about the nice restaurant she was taken to because it wasn't a fancy French bistro (never mind that she wouldn't have been able to conform to the dress code). White guys want NO part of that...

Answer 6

Hun,I'm a white guy that has always dated sistahs!

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