2006-07-07 12:31:59 · 29 answers · asked by Kraljica Katica 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am not a guy, but i think that if a man really and truely loves you then he will be willing to wait, and if not then he is not the guy you want to marry.
2006-07-07 12:36:03 · answer #1 · answered by Britt <3 2 · 7⤊ 1⤋
Dear sister I am happy to see that you are waiting till marriage. Sex out of marriage is a major sin. Please don't listen to these people, sex runs their lives. They are not into family values. And remember dating is not allowed in Islam. Pick a good Muslim brother with good values and a good charterer. And the love and affection will then come from God. You can get to know the brother maybe with chaperoned dates, but dont' get carried away or you know what could happen. Stay strong sister and pray to Allah to send you a good Muslim brother that will be happy with you and you with him in all aspects of life.
2006-07-08 11:42:58 · answer #2 · answered by Umm Ali 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for dating you, but maybe it would to have a relation with you. It depends of some things like the reason why you don't want to have sex before marriage.
2006-07-08 13:06:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm well for some. because when some men take women out on a date they think after the date that they are going to get some BOOTIE and it aint always like that . and thats why i said some men prob. wont date you because they know they aint goen to get nothen from it , but if you find the right guy and he really wants to take you out on a date and he doent care about GETTEN SOME then yes i think you have a better chance at a realationship. dont let men use you, you are better than that if i guy wants you to have sex with him and you dont want to **** him kick him to the curb. you dont need him. and i think it is right to wait untill marriage to have sex i think if every one else did that , that would be just one step to a beter world
so if you want to wait untill marriage then wait if a guy cant except that then he doenst except you.
hope this helps
take care
2006-07-07 19:47:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offence, but yes. It would put me off in the same way as someone who whores themself out to every person they see.
Sex can be a pretty intimate thing, and it can test the emotion present in a relationship. To me, that's not the type of thing to skip before you make such a large commitment as marriage.
2006-07-07 19:44:23 · answer #5 · answered by saeghwin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a female, so I have a very objective view on this.
who gives a sh!t when you'll have sex. I bet that the guy wouldn't give a crap less, but you are the type of girl who will have to keep reminding that you MUST wait until marriage. Everytime he gives you compliment you'll be like.......'I waiting until I 'm married before I have sex'
Not every guy wants to get in your pants....you are probably a dog anyway.
Stop thinking you are high and mighty.
2006-07-07 19:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by shakia27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEah as it shows you have a negative attiude to sex and that wont change in marriage either.
Ie you wont be any fun in bed or affectionate and have no real feelings...
You will just do a duty like its a favour or a job like a prostitute does it for money just to get pregnant...
Thats how you consider sexaul affection
2006-07-07 21:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by Joey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope...I would date you.
& be intimate w/ some other Woman. lol
I due understand your outlook on this matter, but I have seen so many people wait till they get married and find out that his key doesn't fit, or her knob doesn't turn...you get my point? There are alot more factors in a marriage than just sex, but a healthy sex life is just important!
2006-07-07 19:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Making love is not a moral issue. It is a physical expression of inward affection. Waiting until marriage is an arbitrary act. I would have never married my wife if she'd had that attitude, nor would I love her as much as I do had she chosen to refuse to allow me to express it, or express those same feelings herself.
2006-07-07 19:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it would not put me off, until of course I need sex. Then I would get frustrated and probably leave. But you really need to get a guy with the same morals as yourself and you ll be fine
2006-07-07 20:11:05 · answer #10 · answered by gasman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had sex before marriage and trust me its not worth it. I regret every guy i ever slept with except for my current partner of 5 years. Dont be pressured into something you dont want to do. I have so much respect for you for not caving to peer pressure and for sticking to your beliefs.
2006-07-07 21:23:02 · answer #11 · answered by Katty83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋