2006-07-07 11:45:49 · 24 answers · asked by ash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and if there is someone who does pls explain to me why...
2006-07-07 11:48:15 · update #1
Yes i do..I met my husband when i was 13 and then he moved out of the state...we didnt talk to or see each other for almost 4 years...I didnt know if i would ever see him again or know if he was even still alive..then one day out of the blue i was talking to a friend who told me that her roomate met this guy and he was going to move in with them..I went to her house to help and it was my ex...after about a year they broke up he found me and we have been married for 2 years...i always knew i would marry him from the moment i laid eyes on him even though people told my i was crazy and would never see him again
2006-07-07 11:51:37 · answer #1 · answered by Trouble 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i believe that there are a few people (or more) in the world that would be perfecty compatable with one chosen person, and if they decided to settle down, they would go well together, but i dont really believe in the whole long-time manogomy bull sh!t, becuase we are animals basically, if you strip away our civilization we'd be no different than any other animal out there, and we all know that most animals go around have sex with anyone they want, exactly like most of us humans, we arent meant to settle down, have you noticed how many people split up and get devorced?? its an astronomical rate. which only supports the fact that humans just arent ment to have one mate for all of there lives.
2006-07-07 18:55:21 · answer #2 · answered by candi b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, meant to be means that you live happily ever after. It doesn't take in to account the amount of work, communication, compromise, etc, etc, that is needed to make the relationship work. You can have similar beliefs, hobbies, chemistry, whatever, but if both parties are not willing to do the work, it's not going to happen.
2006-07-07 18:56:46 · answer #3 · answered by pedal_now 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are people you were meant to be with, but not necessarily forever. Take me for instance, I've been with some guys that have REALLY treated me badly, but I learned valuable lessons from them, and I feel like I was meant to learn those lessons.
2006-07-07 18:51:46 · answer #4 · answered by luckyirishgirl2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes i do. i think that there is that someone out there that everyone is just ment to be with. and the same thing with what we get and dont get in life that we might want or not want. everything happens for a reason and i feel that those reasons are meant to be, we just dont always see that till later in life.
2006-07-07 18:47:58 · answer #5 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the 'c' word, i'm guessing you don't...!
I don't think there is just one person who you are pre-ordained to be with; that would be a bit far fetched. But i think it is possible to find someone who is pretty much a perfect match. Note, i say possible, not guaranteed; not everyone is lucky enough to find the right person for them.
2006-07-07 18:51:03 · answer #6 · answered by charleymac 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, actually I do. There may not be such a thing as true love, but there is such a thing as a good match. And it's out there, you just haven't found it yet, or bothered to look for it.
2006-07-07 18:51:24 · answer #7 · answered by Shy n' Sweet 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to but now I believe it's crap!
2006-07-07 18:52:40 · answer #8 · answered by Curious_Camo_Jess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes if you were meant to be with some one that means that you and that person are intersted in the same things and that you are a perfect couple
2006-07-07 18:48:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. "Meant to be" is an excuse to absolve yourself of any responsibility. It's commonly used as an excuse for shabby behavior.
2006-07-07 19:03:50 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. O'Clock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋