okay my mother says she talks to her kids but everytime i go to talk to her she throws her hand in my face and says not right now or i dont want to hear it. besides counseling how can i get her to just hear me. i write letters i do everything. maybe some mutual support from anyone of my age group.
2006-07-07 11:39:25 · 3 answers · asked by ladysweetness87 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I understand that I may not be your age but you need to say " mom I have something really important to talk to you about and I need you to listen" than if she still throws her hand up say that really hurts my feelings I really do need to talk to you. Go from their cofront her on how it makes you feel when she does that to you.
Good luck
2006-07-07 17:31:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not your age group but a mother of a 14 year old and an 11 year old daughter (as well as 2 younger boys).
it's so hard on you but sometimes be the bigger person. i had to do it with my mom when i was growing up and it made me strong. being a parent is soooooooo tough.
patience is my solution because i know there were times when i just couldn't deal and you don't want her to have a nervous breakdown!
take care :-)
2006-07-07 18:46:13 · answer #2 · answered by echo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When your mom's not busy, ask to talk to her in private and tell her how you feel.
2006-07-07 18:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by christigmc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋