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I need opinions on wedding plans. My significant other and i know we will get married someday.We both dont think a baby is a reason to get married. How do you tell people who ask either
1. Why arent you married?
2. When are you going to get married?
3. Then how did you get pregnant? (i really get this alot)

2006-07-07 11:37:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Other - Pregnancy & Parenting

17 answers

tell them we decided to wait and that the 2 of you do not need a peice of paper to tell you how to love each other....as in the marriage license

2006-07-07 12:24:32 · answer #1 · answered by babygirlmll 2 · 4 1

I think it's great that you aren't rushing into marriage
If people ask questions tell them the truth....you're not ready to get married at this very moment, tell them how you feel about marriage. If they ask when, tell them it'll happen when you both feel it is the right time. If they ask how you got pregnant, then I'm assuming they really don't understand a lot about life in general.
Or if all else fails, tell them it's really none of their concern, and let it be.

2006-07-07 18:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by Angie 5 · 0 0

You asked. I think having a baby is a great reason to get married, especially since you know you will one day anyway. It makes life a lot simpler for the little person when those same insensitive people ask him/her those types of questions, and tries to confuse him.
I think, if you aren't going to tie the knot, you should tell the truth if you want to answer.
1) We aren't ready yet
2) We don't know
3) We had unprotected sex

2006-07-07 18:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by Robin R 2 · 0 0

1. Because I'm planning on leaving him in 5 years, and by not getting married, it will be cheaper and easier.
2. When George Clooney comes to his senses and calls me.
3. It involves candlelight, lube and little fishies.

2006-07-07 18:42:46 · answer #4 · answered by Buster Van Buren 3 · 0 0

possible answers to your questions to shut people up:

1. because the dark lord told us not to (say with a crazy eyed expression)
2. as soon as tibet is free we will marry, it's our special way of protesting
3. well i didn't know my uterus was so interesting to you, but to tell you the truth, first an egg moves down the fallopian tube about once a month where it hangs out for a while just waiting to be fertilized by a sperm................(and just keep going on and on about the reproductive system and how it works)

2006-07-07 18:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by sparkydog_1372 6 · 0 0

1. Tell them that you aren't married because you don't want to be.
2. When I feel like it.
3. Start with the story of the birds and the bees and let them see how stupid they are.

2006-07-07 19:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by sarah a 3 · 0 0

The way you ask the question suggests that you're not really interested in the correct answer but rather try to calm down the inner voice in you.

Hey, take it easy and RELAX! There are people who care about you, OK?

Have a nice day!

2006-07-07 18:41:05 · answer #7 · answered by Roland 6 · 0 0

1- Because still i didn't get the job.
2- After I got the job, maybe after one year from now.
3- hey, wait a minute, what is this? I don't understand you... anyway i'm a boy i'll never get pregnant... he he

2006-07-07 18:50:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You answer questions 1 and 2 with "None of your business" and the 3rd question "if you don't know how I got pregnant, then you're really dumber that you look".

2006-07-07 18:43:02 · answer #9 · answered by gajeangjean 2 · 0 0

I would say...
We will get married when we are ready to! to the first 2 ?'s. and
We got pregnant the same way any other couple does.
or I would just say, Excuse me, is it any of your business?

2006-07-07 18:42:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

so annoying i know, i get the same thing especially when any other female in the family is getting hitched.
i have yet to find any answer to suffice.
the sad part is me and my boyfriend are much happier then the rest of them. and we don't plan on having a big to do.

2006-07-07 18:49:15 · answer #11 · answered by cindy loo 6 · 0 0

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