a friend of mine is dating a girl and they have been dating 3 mths. she has lied to him about being pregnant and other big things. i,m totally in love with him and about 5 years ago we fooled around and then i got scared of how i was feeling for him and quit coming around. i got pregnant about a year after i stopped hangin out. but now i'm single again and want to be with him.what should i do and how do i make him see that this girl he is with is not for him?
2006-07-07 11:35:22 · 4 answers · asked by catrob27 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're between a rock and a hard place, aren't you.
I think you have to be his friend first. And, I mean his honest, candid, supportive friend. Gain his trust the way you would that of any other friend. When the time comes, you'll be in a position to make your move and tell him how you really feel. Do not use your friendship to undermine her unfairly. Just be there for him and hold his hand when the fertilizer hits the fan.
There are a couple of songs about what you're going through. Check the links. Maybe they'll help a little.
2006-07-07 11:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by Otis F 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As much as you want to interfere, this is none of your business. Keep your nose out of it. If something goes wrong in the relationship because you said something, he might hold it against you. Just bide your time. If she's so wrong for him, eventually, he'll see this and leave.
2006-07-07 18:38:48 · answer #2 · answered by mikah_smiles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is just try and be there for him, if you get in the middle of it, he might think you help cause the break up...but he will eventually find out and he will relize you were there for him.
2006-07-07 18:39:11 · answer #3 · answered by jessdjnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him. and see what happens, stop wondering! cuz if u dont do anything than ull b alone and ull always wonder what could have happened. he prolly likes u 2 but thinks u dont like him.
2006-07-07 18:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋