I love my boyfriend but in the past year he has been acting weird. He stole from my bank account (2,000$), pushed me down a flight of stairs and i had to go to the hospital and get 50 stiches. He still made me pay for it. I once caught him cheating on me and he cuses me out all the time. What do you think?
2006-07-07 11:33:12 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's not good enough for you. I think you should dump him and do better! Find someone that is a little nicer and will treat you more kinder!
2006-07-07 11:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by chariot804 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
HOLY SH**!! yes i think you should break up with him and why ni the wrold did he push you down the stairs! any guy who would do that to you doesnt deserve you, he should know better adn if he really loved you then he wouldnt have done anything to hurt you...he's prolly in denial if you asked him about the cheating situation but he might come out adn tell you...next time he cusses you out dont be afraid to take a stand to it...say what you need to say and leave the house, apartment or wherever you two are...just leave him there standing adn if he does anything to try to hurt you, make sure you have 911 on speed dial #1 and then keep your phone with you all the time! thats the only way to be safe...he shouldnt be treating you like that, its just wrong...follow your heart...do what your heart says not what your head says...your head is saying "I love him and this will pass"...your heart is saying "leave, get out of there asap..." so follow the path you think will make you happy, yes leaving him might break your heart, but its for your own good!
2006-07-07 18:42:50 · answer #2 · answered by luvgal792003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get away from him as fast as you can this guy is dangerous. Next take him on one of those court court TV programs, cases like these are of interested or hire a lawyer. Plus don't leave out your hospital bills, your pain and suffering this is part of the entire package. Do you think if you both say appear on peoples court his going to want to do you harm after being on national tv and 30 million seen and heard hom threating you...Lastly this guy doesn't care about you a-tall and I would find a place to go and get the hell out of there.. This guys is crazy don't be a viticum
2006-07-07 19:00:04 · answer #3 · answered by Zoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is totally out of his character, he might have a substance abuse problem. The violence and theft are sure signs of someone who is out of control. But the most important thing is that you separate yourself from him! He obviously doesn't care for you anymore and if you stay the violence will only get worse. Lucky you if he has found someone to cheat with, that means there is less chance for him to become obsessed and add stalking to his list of bad traits.
2006-07-07 18:41:02 · answer #4 · answered by S_Monica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shoulda ditched him after he stole from ur bank account! u deserve better! DITCH HIM! hes a jackass
2006-07-07 18:37:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn, and you have to ask that question, any one of the things you said he did to you is a reason to leave him.
2006-07-07 18:38:04 · answer #6 · answered by Rob K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's time to get the authorities involved and put him behind bars and sue him for your money back and stay away from him....RUN......
2006-07-07 18:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by BbyGrl80 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump him. Get away from any man who abuses you. Know your selfworth.
2006-07-07 18:46:07 · answer #8 · answered by nativeamericantay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea f....u.....c....k... that.
walk away. and resist the urge.
this is actually comin frm a guy and a girls perspective
we both looked at that and sed nooo. thats a negatory for him.
2006-07-07 18:40:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling, i didnt even hafta read ur details to tell you this "YES BREAK UP WITH HIM IMMEDIATELY!!!!" and after reading the details, i say this "WHAT'S WRONG WITH HIM?!?!?1 LIKE SERIOUSLY?!?!?! AND U FORGIVE HIM?? HE HAS NO RIGHT AT ALL TREATING YOU LIKE THAT!! HE IS NOTHING BUT A LOSER!! U DESERVE SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH BETTER!!!!!!!!!" and after I finish writing this, i say "break up with him immediately, and call him a prlck which ur at it"
2006-07-07 18:37:36 · answer #10 · answered by Janeyy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋