i am 15 and my boyfriend is 17 we love each other and i am pregnet my mom says we can't get married until i am 18 or maybe 17 and i need a fake i.d. card to say i am already 18 so... i can get married!! PLEASE SOMEBODY HELP ME
2006-07-07 11:26:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Sweetheart you already made one dumb move why do you want to make another..Go ahead and get your fake ID and get married, Honey your mom can still get it anuled.. I went through this with my daughter.. Hang loose untill your of age and then if you want go get married, theres a 50% chance you wount want to.. You have a lot of living to do yet, give your self a chance..15 Your not even out of school yet.. Talk to your School and your paster they can tell you where to get the help you'll need..A lot of girls have done it and turned out ok.. PLEASE dont be stupit... LOL and BEST WISHES Rob
2006-07-07 11:42:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait!!! Trust me I know from experience that divorce is no fun!
Oh and about the fake id card----Dont do it unless you like being behind bars because thats where you will end up. That is a very serious matter. Then while your in the slammer you wont get to spend precious time with your baby or your fiance.
Dont rush marriage..if it is meant to be, then why hurry?
If you wait, this is a sure fire way to see if and when his true colors will come out. He and you both are still very young and this may be the biggest mistake of your life!
2006-07-14 10:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jennifer M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you get a marriage license by using false identification, your marriage will not be legal; therefore, you won't really be married. I suggest you take the time to convince your mom that getting married would be the best option for you, your boyfriend, and your unborn child. Get a mediator involved if necessary. Waiting is always an option. It's unlikely your boyfriend would be able to take care of you and the baby -without dropping out of school anyway, so you could stay with your mom until he's ready to take care of you and the baby. And it'll give you a chance to become more mature, too.
2006-07-12 02:47:16 · answer #3 · answered by SparklesGrrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even if you have a fake id card, the marriage is not legal, so it won't matter if you have a ceremony or not, you will not be legally married. In many states, you have to have more than one form of id anyways.
What are you going to do, walk up to your parents and say "I'm married"? It doesn't work like that, sweetie. Your parents are still your legal guardians and will still be in charge of you until you are 18 unless you get emancipated.
2006-07-07 11:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by mountain_laurel1183 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait out the extra 3 years and then get married. I know you won't like that answer but it's what you really should do. I also was 15 once (8 years ago) and I know how it is... you think YOU know whats best and won't follow any of your elders advice. Best of luck to you, you'll soon realize that your mom knows what is in your best interest.
2006-07-07 11:31:15 · answer #5 · answered by Holly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fake ID's arent good to use with the authorities. They can spot one of these things a mile away. They are only good to use with people tht are not trained, like bouncers at clubs and things like that. If you do decide to get one and go get married, you are committing fraud which is punishable by law. Do not go about it this way. You can speak with a judge and he/she may grant you permission to marry without your parent's consent. This would be the only way to go about this whole thing. Good Luck!!
2006-07-07 11:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by HCW 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MY DEAR GOD GIRL...............FIRST IF I NEVER I WOULD NEVER LET A GIRL AS YOUNG GET HER HANDS ON ONE.....SECOND OF ALL YOU ARE STILL A BABY YOURSELF.........DO YOU REALLY KNOW WHAT YOU ARE IN FOR ONCE THAT BABY COMES INTO THIS WORLD?..........DOES YOUR BOYFRIEND REALIZE IT TOO?..........I CAN UNDERSTAND WHAT YOUR MOM IS SAYING ABOUT YOU BEING TOO YOUNG TO GET MARRIED NOW....WHAT HAPPENS AFTER THE BABY IS BORN AND THIS BOYFRIEND OF YOURS DECIDES HE CAN'T TAKE IT AND JUST WALKS...THAN WHAT?.....IF I WERE I WOULD MAKE AN APPOINTMENT TO A PLAN PARENTHOOD AND GO TALK TO THOSE WOMEN...THEY ARE ALL OR WERE IN YOUR SPOT......I'M SURE THAT THEY CAN;T HELP YOU SORT THINGS OUT SO YOU CAN SEE WHAT YOU ARE IN FOR AND TRY TO HELP YOU MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICES NOW......IF NOT FOR YOU AND HIM DO IT FOR YOU UNBORN BABY WHO DOESN'T NEED ALL THE HURT ACHE GROWING UP......
2006-07-07 11:35:18 · answer #7 · answered by whitewolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's lust, by the time you ARE 18, you most likely won't want to marry him.
2006-07-07 11:29:34 · answer #8 · answered by ohLALA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm... if you have a fake id, then doesnt that just make the whole marraige based on a lie? therefore your marraige would be fake so it really doesnt matter. jsut wait. if he really loves you, then he will wait for you.
2006-07-12 12:36:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats dumb and real mature, why not just wait. and an id won't work, you need id and birth certificate
2006-07-07 12:59:55 · answer #10 · answered by Molly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋