this man can't make love with his wife any more,and he is faith ,doesn't have any outside relationships! how can he solve his problem as he is still young and desires to have love!
2006-07-07 11:01:44 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
is this man justified to have another wife ,and keep his old wife? ,especially that he has no sons yet
2006-07-07 11:13:31 · update #1
As long as you still have a loving, understanding relationship with your wife and you two communicate openly with one another, you have options.
Sexual intercourse is not just penetration. There's oral sex and mutual physical gratification. Kissing and hugging are not out of the question, are they?
I don't know what's happened to your wife but, since you are a Christian, you know that she is chosen to be yours by G-d and He will not allow you to suffer by His hand. Seek Him and His guidance and keep Him first in your heart, your home, and your relationship.
He wants you to be happy in all things.
G-d bless you and protect your wife.
2006-07-07 11:07:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well are you sure you can never make love to her again or just for the time being .i am not familiar with it to know .well there are different ways to enjoy each other with out actual intercourse .make love to her orally and she can return it to you .as long as she is comfortable ,and so are you .i would go to the doctor and ask what you can and cant do to make sure you arnt hurting her in anyway.she is probably going through a lot right now and probably does not think of making love in the picture anymore maybe seek out counseling for you both.just rememeber your vows to each other and find an alternative to intercourse ( it may only be temporary).well good luck
well if you were a christian you wouldnt even ask that no you are not justified and if that is all you are worried about with this you are not a nice loving husband .your wife could of dies from this and you worried about having kids what about her what is she worried about ?is she worried this could come back?is she worried about how you will feel about her ?is she worried about if you are going to leave her cuz you may think she is less than a woman ?if you love your wife you will stick by her through the good and the bad love her ,hold her ,be with her emotionally and eventually physically in the way you are allowed by the doctors.stop being an unfeeling jerk .but if that is truly how you feel ditch her in her hour of need go get another woman knock her up get your son through her let your current wife off the hook so she can find a loving and caring husband
2006-07-07 18:10:31 · answer #2 · answered by blackfoot124 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love has nothing to do with sex. If he truly loved his wife and desired to behave as the christian man he claims to be he will simple deal with this issue. He can cuddle with his wife, get emotional love and bonding, and still maintain a deeply bonded love with her that has far more value than the sexual act. He has a hand let him use it. The ONLY answer for a truly christian man is to be faithful to his wife and to God. It is that simple. This is his lesson to learn and to live with. His challenge for growth. Think of his wife and how she must feel right now as well. To be rejected because she survived cancer? What type of loving husband would hurt a woman who has committed her life to his? What type of man who loves God and is obedient to his laws would do such a thing. What does his age have to do with anything? You know the answer to this, what are you looking for permission to cheat? It is not going to happen by any who truly loves God and his Wife, nor is any going to tell him it is OK here at Yahoo! Answers and be a true Christian.
2006-07-07 18:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by Serenity 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Discuss his needs with her. A marriage can only exist where the needs and desires of each individual are fulfilled. Unreasonable sacrifices = failed marriage and misery.
Being Christain should have no bearing on the situation. Let them work it together through openness and understanding.
WHATEVER that means in the end.
2006-07-07 18:04:54 · answer #4 · answered by justwebbrowsing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U should stop thinking about urself! Ur wife has just gone through a very traumatic experience, u married her in Sickness and in health, take Ur vows seriously and if u cant then u should not be married to her or anyone else!
2006-07-07 20:04:51 · answer #5 · answered by bobatemydog 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a sad situation. I hope they can find a way through it.
There are lots of things they can do together. They can both give and receive oral sex. They can both use their hands. They should experiment with anal sex and see if they can both enjoy it.
And, I feel strongly that they should see a marriage counselor and a sex therapist to help find their way through.
None of these things are un-Christian. If they believe that God wants their marriage to work, they should start working on it.
Good Luck to them!
2006-07-07 18:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should quit whining and find out how you can be supportive of your wife. Then, ask her how you can solve your problem together. I'm sure she'd like to be intimate again. Work on it together and pray about it.
2006-07-07 18:05:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like his luck ran out. He might as well embrace celibacy. His wife has a decision to make, either become celibate or go.
2006-07-07 18:08:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Masturbation... or have his wife perform hand job, kissing, but not intercourse via vagina... could be oral. Well, sex is not just intercourse, contact between penis and vagina right?
Unless you are prude and do not have imagination to play.
2006-07-07 18:05:46 · answer #9 · answered by teddybear1268 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oral?
How about in the stink?
2006-07-07 18:04:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋