if love is supposed to be so happy and good, why is it so stressful and a drag?
2006-07-07 10:35:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's both !
from the Bible
1 Corinthians 13: 7 Love bears up under anything and everything that comes, is ever ready to believe the best of every person, its hopes are fadeless under all circumstances, and it endures everything [without weakening].
8 Love never fails [never fades out or becomes obsolete or comes to an end]. As for prophecy ([a]the gift of interpreting the divine will and purpose), it will be fulfilled and pass away; as for tongues, they will be destroyed and cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away [it will lose its value and be superseded by truth].
9 For our knowledge is fragmentary (incomplete and imperfect), and our prophecy (our teaching) is fragmentary (incomplete and imperfect).
Galatians 5:22
But the fruit of the Spirit is
Love, joy, peace, Longsuffering,
gentleness, goodness, faith,
2006-07-07 10:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by goodcharacter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a lot of hard work. You have good and bad times. It's just easier to remember the bad. Both people have to give to make it less stressful.
2006-07-07 17:40:09 · answer #2 · answered by patricia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe the love you are involved in is one sided...love is also something you have to work on daily. It doesn't just pop out one day and stay there forever. It does take 2 for love to work....think about how the other person is trying to show you love....if you can't think of many things...maybe you need to find someone else to love??????? Good luck!
2006-07-07 17:39:41 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just all the emotions that involve being in love. I am in love but miserable right now. I wish it could be happy all the time
2006-07-07 17:39:10 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think because your bearly getting used to it.I dont really know about this but i think when you get used to it you feel like happy and now you're bearly getting used to it.But if you have
been in love for a while already then probably its not love..
2006-07-07 17:39:25 · answer #5 · answered by victoriaa:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are dating the wrong people. Dating/relationships are fun, when they start to suck move on. When you find the right one, it won't be that stressful it will just work.
2006-07-07 17:38:44 · answer #6 · answered by bluechick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question... i guess one reason we are all different and we are not always going to agree on things... and nothing in life is perfect all the time...love hurts too....but you have to make decisions yourself and try to be happy yourself....i do not really know what else to say....but i do know love can really hurt a person in more ways than one..
2006-07-07 17:41:46 · answer #7 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause Is love!!!!! love is time consuming , fear but satisfction, time care, is stressful cause is the way it should be we enjoy more and get attach more to people and things that are more hard to get But is beautiful dont u think? satisfaction
2006-07-07 17:40:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love means not having to say you are sorry.
Love can be as good as you let it be.
Love comes with expectations and expectations comes with hurt
2006-07-07 17:40:17 · answer #9 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not all happy and good. It is hard work and long hours. But the compensation is excellent.
2006-07-07 17:38:37 · answer #10 · answered by Pixie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋