serious answers only.
2006-07-07 10:32:18 · 7 answers · asked by Jay Tay 4 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
i'm a guy to
2006-07-07 10:38:32 · update #1
Dear Jay Tay, Broad shoulders are a comliment to any man or woman! The frame of our bodies are not gifted to us - by us - they are gifted to us by the many genes that our family's gene pool possesses. I am sorry that you hate having broad shoulders. I am a woman, and I, too have broader shoulders than I would like to have, but I have come to realize that unless I am ready to undergo some serious, wasteful, expensive, and silly plastic surgery, there are some things that I have to get used to. Besides, when people use "normal" as a way of selecting what is supposed to be "right" in size, dress, hair color, shape, anything else - it really depends on the person. The only thing you 'can' do is dress and wear clothing that will provide you the shape and style and class you need to see. I would not wear jackets, or shirts, etc with pads. They only heighten the shoulder areas and bring attention to that area. Wear clothing that comliment the natural shape of your shoulders for a smoother look - dark hues. Stay away from plaids, stripes and other such materials that would call attention to the shoulders. Go to your local department store for direction and help. The customer service reps are there to help you select clothing that would compliment you. And Jay - please know that your shoulders 'are' normal. Not to be funny, but look at "Herman Munster" - he was sho' nuff happening with his dark jacket on - tall, dark and well...maybe not so handsome, but there is someone for everyone. You've lived with them all this time - keep on living! P.S. When you walk, stand up tall and straight - be proud of your shoulders -it is he with broad shoulders that the lonely hearted, tearful and dispised, can lay her head upon and feel the magnitude of strength and love.
2006-07-07 10:45:16 · answer #1 · answered by THE SINGER 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your shoulders are broad because of genetics. Nothing you can do about that.
2006-07-07 17:36:00 · answer #2 · answered by erin7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you a guy or girl? this question would make better since if i knew that. don't work your upper body muscles very often, also, if you are a girl, halter tops make the shoulder appear more narrow.
2006-07-07 17:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by dragonfly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I had same idea about my face!
See, my problem was worse!
But now I just stick to hard work and study. Everything goes right!
And I'm going to get married now!
Hope it will help you
Take care
Hossein
2006-07-07 17:44:08 · answer #4 · answered by Hossein 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby, love the skin you'er in. what's wrong with wide shoulders?
2006-07-07 17:48:20 · answer #5 · answered by panamm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are a guy its ok why do u hate it if not den i don know
2006-07-07 17:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by mash_striker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is how u r u can't change it sorry
2006-07-07 17:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by coco 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋