so there is this really awesome and cute guy that i like. i have never liked anyone like i like him but there is one problem. he has a reputation of being a player and he cheated on his last girlfriend. he has asked me out before but i said no because he was a player. but he said once he finds someone he REALLY likes he only fools around with them. he has been trying to go out with me for about 4 or 5 months now. i mean we mine as well be going out because we always makeout and stuff but i dont know. i just dont want to get my heart broken. what should i do?
2006-07-07 10:28:06 · 7 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and all of his friends tell me that he ALWAYS talks about me and how he wants to go out with me. they say that he never talks about a girl like that.
2006-07-07 11:05:43 · update #1
once a player, alaways a player. What makes you think that he will treat you any diffrent than his ex?
2006-07-07 10:30:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since u already have started making out u might as well date him but don't i repeat DON'T get ur FEELINGS caught up in this guy cause he's a player just try to be friends for awhile and see how he responds. I went thru a similar situation an ended up gettin' blowed off cause my feeling got caught up and he got scared and punked out so take things very SLOOWLY!! Good luck!!
2006-07-07 10:41:40 · answer #2 · answered by Caryn B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is a player then he knows how to manipulate girls and get girls to like him. If you go out with him he will only move on to another girl and leave you sad and angry while he is out having fun with someone else. Trust me...I know this from experience.
2006-07-07 10:53:09 · answer #3 · answered by Roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh well.. see i have the same problem yu do!! he's almost perfect! and he said the same thing.. so as sucker for love as i am.. i kind of believe him.. i guess yu just have to give it a try.. remember that you can get played by a "good boy" just as much as it can happen with a "player" .. neither one can guarantee nothing's gonna happen..u can only trust him... i heard from someone that in order to live totally it is necessary to die several times.. (and lets face it.. bad boys give yu the best of times! lol)
2006-07-07 10:52:19 · answer #4 · answered by chela_010 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him, then you'll catch him bangin' another chick like a screen door in a hurricane. That's the only way you will learn apparently.
2006-07-07 10:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he cheated on his ex, what makes you think he wont cheat on you, but if that's what you want, then go for it.
2006-07-07 10:33:22 · answer #6 · answered by tantalizin1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey plez...just stop it stop bein so damn desperate that you'd go out wit sum one who want even love or respect ya in 5 months he'll have you cryin...damn what ya heard..leave him where he be.....don't get involved....
2006-07-07 14:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋