i am a 15 year old who has never had a date, my 1 kiss, etc. i am a warm hearted girl who love music but i guess guys see me more of a cool friend that they can talk to about anything........help me
2006-07-07 10:15:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are 15, don't worry about it...there will be plenty of guys to deal with as you grow up...trust me, enjoy this time without us, cause we are pains in the ***...
2006-07-07 10:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by twentythree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I am 15 too. But the important thing in a guy is that they like you for you. Not your wieght. But losing weight is good. People seem to really respect you if you have worked really hard to be thin. And guys do notice. Not to mention that when you are in shape, you feel great.I was big too. What I did was I got involved in sports. Then I pushed myself really hard to be the best. Because I pushed myself the pounds just fell off. Then guys knew me because i was atheletic and strong willed.
I also found some activity (im a jr. firefighter) that gives me a motive to stay fit. There is a difference between fit and skinny.
NOw I love to exercise. But hey, email me. We can be workout buddies. It is easier to stick to a workout or a diet if you have someone else helping you. My addy is smokinhothorsegirl@yahoo.com I'd be glad to help you in whatever way i can.
2006-07-07 17:32:10 · answer #2 · answered by fired up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to be bigger until I joined Weight Watchers when I was 17 and lost about 25/30 lbs. It helps not only with the guys but also to feel more self confident.
If losing weight isnt a good answer for you, you could try going out with guys who aren't very good looking but are super nice.
2006-07-07 18:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by Roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try to take some weight off. I'm not being mean, I'm just saying that teenage guys are really superficial.
2006-07-07 17:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by sheeny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are only 15. you have plenty of time. Don't listen to Angie29!
2006-07-07 17:19:43 · answer #5 · answered by tantalizin1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to loose some weight.. The older you get the harder it's gonna be to get a date
2006-07-07 17:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by Angie29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be urself. my daughter is big and shes had boyfriends just because she was herself but then she became possive in the relationship. just be patient and concentrate on ur school.
2006-07-07 17:19:51 · answer #7 · answered by billysgirls3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋