I am looking for a program that I can disguise and send it to someone to log what they are doing on a remote computer? This is strictly for personal use. I am not intending to use it for any detrimental cause. I need to know something serious about my spouse. Looks like my spouse is cheating on me and we are right now in different parts of the world and my spouse keeps going all around without telling me. So I need some help.
Rgds
JB
2006-07-07 10:12:43 · 6 answers · asked by JB 1 in Computers & Internet ➔ Software
This is for daniel...
Hey Daniel ... the person is cheating on me for sure cos I have read emails on his computer when we got together. There seems to be more than one person involved and thats what I am trying to see... whats going on...? Thanks for ur response though.
2006-07-07 11:09:16 · update #1
yeah, right.
I'm sure that's what you want it for.....
2006-07-07 10:15:51 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for what must be a very difficult time. Try to stay sane. This question is only borderline sane.
First, what you are describing is an FCC fellony that can and likely would land you in jail. People do such things, but they are pros and they are not doing it to people who would immediately suspect them when the local IT guys tell them they've been hacked. You could end up with the FBI at your door if you succeeded at this. Don't do it.
Leave this alone. Be above it. If they are cheating, they will very likely be willing to tell you if you ask correctly, without harsh accusation, without aggression and with a willingness to believe them one way or the other. People are very intuitive; if you have poor intentions -- such as looking to accuse them and start some drama, they'll usually spot that and say what is necessary to avoid it, i.e. lie.
Also realize that you may just be totally out in left field. The fact that you are bothered by this person going places without telling you says loud and clear that you are someone with some significant insecurities and control issues. That's not an insult! Relax! MOST healthy, normal people can become this way if we do not seriously examine ourselves and who we really are. It takes a conscious effort to not be a caveperson. Left to our own automated behaviors, we would self-destruct in our teen years!
Those insecurities though very often rear their head in the form of paranoid thinking over things we are unable to control. We think about what COULD BE HAPPENING, we seek to control it so that we can feel secure that it won't happen, and when the other person only reasonably refuses to be controlled, WE ASSUME THAT IT IS HAPPENING, when really, the only thing that has happened is that we've lost our minds a bit due to insecurities, abandonment issues, etc.
Either way, don't be a dummy and throw a marriage away based upon a feeling you're having. Don't throw a marriage away based upon someone not catering to your insecurities. Your spouse is ALLOWED to go off and do things, be free, have fun, have a life -- just as you are. That doesn't mean they are cheating on you.
Rather than looking for evidence of infidelity, why not totally change your approach, assume the very best and don't believe otherwise until they tell you so? THAT my friend, is what a marriage is all about, assuming the very best.
If you are being cheated on, the pain will be the same, whether you find it out by some crafty means today or learn it a year from now when they slip in conversation. Why rush into the pain?????? Assume the best, enjoy your marriage -- even if you need to grow to do it on their terms and see where it goes when you apply your best, most trusting and loving attitude. You don't lose here either way.
Daniel
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2006-07-07 17:43:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try:
Sub7
BackOrifous
and there are many others, but these are old school.... on your own risk and you should know that it might be against the law where you are.
One more thing.... if you live by the sword, you die by the sword...
By using these programs more advanced "Buddies" might be able to watch you closely
2006-07-07 17:23:16 · answer #3 · answered by wierauch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes there is but it is quite illegal......even to do on your own computer if your spouse uses it and has no knowledge of the keylogger it is illegal
2006-07-07 17:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by susuze2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of an ignoramus would think we would help him break the law? go soak your head :)
2006-07-07 17:16:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
eagle_not_bird pms me right now hurry am not always free
ill give u wat u want and in 10 menites
2006-07-07 17:18:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋