I mean in general I just don't really even notice if people are "hot" or "ugly". I never had a crush on a movie star...or even liked anyone that is considered "hot"....I mean don't get me wrong, I do think guys are cute but i never dwell on it. My idea of what makes a guy cute is really different from most people. is that weird?
2006-07-07 10:11:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is not weird at all. I do, however think that is rare these days with what TV says is hot and is not. I feel the same way in a lot of respects with women. I have not been very attacted to women until I got to know them. The more I got to know them, the more attractive they became. On the other hand, I have met "beautiful" girls that became less attractive to me because of their crappy personalities. So, you should never change even if people perceive that as weird. Looks can and usually do fade, but the inner person is what will always be constant and once you find someone who YOU think is beautiful, then chances are, he would be the person you could love forever.
2006-07-07 10:26:07 · answer #1 · answered by TNGuy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I'm exactly the same.....except for the movie star thing, I LOVE Leonardo DiCaprio...and Orlando Bloom...but that's because if I think a movie star looks good, I do a lot of research on them, figure out what they're like, to decide if I like him...
Anyways, I don't notice if a guy looks good or not until I really get to know him, but that's only with guys I see in person, but yeah.
An example of that: The guy I'm seriously in love with. When I first met him, I honestly didn't really notice how he looked, but as we got to know each other, and became like best friends, I started to like him, and now I think he's about the "hottest" guy in the world. Not that he looks to great, because he's not all that good looking to most people, but in my eyes, he's perfect.
2006-07-07 10:18:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all. Im sorta the same, though I do notice if a guy is really HOT! Though to me if a guy has a nice personality I find him more and more attractive, where as if a really hot guy is a total jerk and he instantly becomes unattractive!
2006-07-07 10:20:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not at all. If anything I wish a lot more women had your personality. I think the way you discriminate men is refreshing and works to your benefit in the dating world. At first I was interested in guys with looks, but I ended up w/ my boyfriend and he's normal looking but I love his personality and sense of humor. It makes him cuter and sexier.
You have a wonderful gift to see beyond physical and see the deeper person. It's not weird, it makes you special.
2006-07-07 10:19:49 · answer #4 · answered by Susan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not weird.I feel the same way,looks doesn't come first in my book.That is the truth. The other characteristics are more important and a turn on.
2006-07-07 10:18:57 · answer #5 · answered by Linda R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good for you. You should have no worries finding a great guy! I'd date you in a hearbeat just for saying that comment!
2006-07-07 10:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by rayloskii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm the same way. The guys personality and how he treats me is what really counts. That is what makes me desire him, not his looks.
2006-07-07 10:15:20 · answer #7 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not weird at all, just extremely rare. I think you'll make someone very happy.
2006-07-07 10:14:53 · answer #8 · answered by dhalia_1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but you are a rare breed. Many women say that looks don't count, but they know when they're lying and so do we
2006-07-07 10:14:24 · answer #9 · answered by Velociraptor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thing I would need to know is...are you "hot" or "ugly"...if u are HOT, then you could be one of the first "REAL" women out there...
2006-07-07 10:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by canazgolf 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋