i love her but im not sure if i should stay
2006-07-07 10:02:58 · 54 answers · asked by Mr. Postman 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okk so she says that she goes to his house to see him becuase they were on and off for five years to see if she felt the same way about him. She says she fell asleep and she woke up and he was like touching her she told him to stop and one thing lead to another and it happened. but she told him to stop in less then five minutes so she says and last but not least she still spent the night over his house and didnt tell me til last night and it happened on monday.
2006-07-07 10:25:02 · update #1
Well, Let me tell you what my GrandPappy told me a long time ago before he died. He sat me on his lap and he said " You are not a girl, You do not own a P***y." You cant pull out no keys to no P***y, nor a deed to it". So a B***h is gone do what she want to do with it. If she wanna give it away to the next man, she gonna do it and aint a damn thang you can do about it. She was F**king before you met her and she gone do it long after you and aint a damn thang you can do about that. If you slipping in your thang your, B***h will get hit. Then he told me he F**ked my daddy's Girlfriend while he was locked up.
I didnt mention My Grandaddy, Daddy, and 2 of my Uncles were a pimp from the west side of Chicago did I? My Uncle "D" is one of the more known ones. Heres a hint: Green is for the Money and Gold is for the Honey.
Trust me when I tell you what I tell bout a woman, Im a pimp by Blood Not relation.
2006-07-07 10:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Love 3 · 2⤊ 4⤋
This is really a question for you ... Do you think that you can live with this for the rest of your relationship? Will you always be looking around your shoulder, thinking she might do it again? I feel really badly for you, because I wouldn't know what to do if it happened to me. You must have been devastated when you found out and that's hard to ovecome, especially when you love some one so deeply. There will be a lot for the two of you to overcome to stay together ... if you are willing and so is she, perhaps counseling could help you!
Good luck my friend!
2006-07-07 10:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes once a cheater always a cheater u know better if u cheated on her with ur ex she would have dumped u a long time ago.... why would u want to be with a girl that's not faithful to you? not a good idea ull just end up getting hurt over and over again....
2006-07-07 10:06:41 · answer #3 · answered by mashakry18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, depends. Was it a one time thing? Do you think you can forgive her? Do you love her? Is she worth it?
You didn't really offer enough information here to know. It is very difficult to move past cheating in a relationship. If she seems really truly sorry and it was a one time thing, maybe it is possible. It is up to you and how much you think your heart can take.
Good luck sweetie.
2006-07-07 10:06:05 · answer #4 · answered by Kitty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say dump her. If you don't dump her use the guilt as leverage. Get her to perform a series of bizarre sex acts like the dirty pirate. Then dump her. After you dump her expect her to call when she gets a new boyfriend. Dump her unless you like being cheated on.
2006-07-07 10:13:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you know the answer to that! she would dump you in a heartbeat if you cheated. Find someone who won't hurt you like she has! Good luck and move on!
2006-07-07 10:10:12 · answer #6 · answered by rayloskii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not going to be able to get over her cheating you might as well leave. If you are going to bring it up often and start to treat her differently because of her cheating, it won't be worth it to either of you if you stay. You have to be willing to totally disregard her cheating.
2006-07-07 10:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by Meg...Out of Hybernation 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe once a cheater always a cheater, I understand that you love her but if you don't have that trust in her that you might have had before I don't recommend that you stay because every chance you get you will probably remind her of what she did.
2006-07-07 10:06:23 · answer #8 · answered by roxy10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can u trust her again? do u honestly think she would not cheat again? if u are up for the gamble then stay. if u dont want to tolerate it then leave... by staying u kind of send the message that if she cheats u will except it from her...
2006-07-07 10:07:58 · answer #9 · answered by Jennifer B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea... i ben there..... except it was with a guy... First just talk to her and ask her why she did it and tell her how that made you feel and why she would do something like that to you... then, if she says everything that you want to hear and you know she ment everything she said, then go ahead and give everything another try...
2006-07-07 10:09:20 · answer #10 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋