2006-07-07 10:00:22 · 16 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well that's ok love who you want and don't let people tell you that it's wrong
2006-07-07 10:02:29 · answer #1 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Contrary to popular belief, there is but one race... and that is human. So no, it is not unusual to be attracted to someone of another color... in fact, the contrast in color can be quite beautiful.
As a black man, I have found interracial relationships (yeah, my gf is white) to be quite pleasing, though not without their challenges... the primary challenge being how society deals reacts to it.
Be prepared for some ill-mannered comments from some of our less evolved citizens... and depending on where in the country you're located, you could face more than that...
But I can tell you that true love can conquer all that... if you two are committed to each other, those around you will soon come around... and if they don't... it's a big country... you can love each other anywhere.
2006-07-07 17:18:29 · answer #2 · answered by Rev T L Clark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same issue and my family wants to know the answer too. Been only with Latino, mostly Mexican men since 15. Married once before to a Mexican, divorced and now married again. Not unusual at all. I went to Utah and the girls & women there are addicted. Any other race does not attract me, even if I see a nice lookin guy, if he ain't Mexican, I don't do a doulble take.
2006-07-07 17:10:38 · answer #3 · answered by mexme2day 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm only attracted to people of my own race and I don't think that's abnormal. So why would being attracted to those who aren't your race abnormal? It's not. Don't worry. As long as you have a good man what does it matter the color of his skin or the shape of his eyes. It's your personal preference. It doesn't mean that you dislike being Caucasian, it means that you find something else beautiful as well. Don't stress it too much.
2006-07-07 17:04:37 · answer #4 · answered by FaerieWhings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not unusual. It's just a matter of your preference. I tend to be attracted to guys of different races, but for me it's just a matter of who I click with.
2006-07-07 17:04:19 · answer #5 · answered by x_chynadoll814_x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a black man and i find myself attracted more towards white girls i dont think there is any thing wrong with you i just think that its very natural for black men and white women to be attracted because the media has potrayed the black man as strong and sexy and the white woman as most beautiful and sexy
nothing wrong with you or wrong with what we do
2006-07-07 17:05:03 · answer #6 · answered by comm2nd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not weird. besides race has nothing to do with love. What i notice most about guys is their personality and character. Then after I've decided he is a good guy only then do I take notice of his physical appearance.
2006-07-07 17:03:38 · answer #7 · answered by anointed_light 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that it is unusual. I don't know many people like you, but I don't think it's a bad thing.
2006-07-07 17:10:41 · answer #8 · answered by Steven W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be attracted to the person of your choice who cares what race they are
2006-07-07 17:54:06 · answer #9 · answered by herb52781 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know exately how you feel i dont find white guy's attrative eathier and that's my race i think it is a natural thing many people dont like white boy that's why they try to be black
2006-07-07 17:07:27 · answer #10 · answered by i_am_16_2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ur life and ur taste, nobody can make u change that. go for what u want. i dont have a problem with u liking others outside ur race. thats not me. but it doesnt matter about me, what matters is what u like and go for it.
2006-07-07 17:04:15 · answer #11 · answered by Miss Carlino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋