my boyfriend held my hand or kissed me or huged me and i did not know why but i did not let it bother me until now he will even put his hand on my shoulder and when i walk in front of him he will touch me in the back this is reall freaking me out
2006-07-07 09:53:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol!!! Oh my gosh, my boyfriend used to do the same thing. Why don't u just ask him...I asked mine. I love him but it's like...back up! I guess the thing is that some guys express their emotions by touch and when u push them away it's like you're rejecting them. Look around at married couples...the men do this stuff all of the time. You just need to tell him to chill a little, I don't know how long you've been dating but if he's insecure, if theres no commitment, it may also be his way of getting some kind of reassurance from you...so yeah.....like i said..just talk to him about it. Let him know you care about him...if you do. But u shouldn't get freaked about it...trust me...there seems to be alot of guys like that..they're either sensitive or they ignore you....2 extremes...choose one.
2006-07-07 10:06:55 · answer #1 · answered by jusme 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are more into touching than others. What he's doing doesn't sound excessive or controlling to me. I think he's just showing you he cares about you. If he was groping you or wanted to have a make-out session in public, I would say that was over the top.
2006-07-07 09:59:00 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm... maybe he loves you. I don't know. I think in ancient Greece they called it affection. Ok, sorry for the sarcasm. Here's the deal. He is trying to constantly reasure you of his love for you because he needs reasurance himself. It's love... or maybe he just can't see very well ;)
2006-07-07 09:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by joereese69 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
From my own point of view; I think your boyfriend has "security" issues.
he's either reminding you constantly that he's here and you're HIS,
or in the eyes of others; it's like buzz off "she's mine".
2006-07-07 09:59:41 · answer #4 · answered by viperlike 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time for your boyfriend to get himself a new girlfriend cause you sure ain't
2006-07-07 09:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by litch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to end it because you aren't in to him anymore!
2006-07-07 10:00:02 · answer #6 · answered by rayloskii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's trying to say that he might be falling in love with you
2006-07-07 09:57:41 · answer #7 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that means that you are tired of him, time to move on
2006-07-07 09:57:24 · answer #8 · answered by ndnyabl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has major control issues. be careful with him.
2006-07-07 10:10:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's what couples do
2006-07-07 09:56:27 · answer #10 · answered by Ito R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋