I've been with this guy... and he doesn't really respect me. He is always flirting with other girls... and i thought he was the one for me. I thought that I was going to be with him for the rest of my life. We were that in love.. we were that much alike. He just keeps getting worse and worse... and i am not happy.. there is this constant bad feeling in my gut, and I don't know how much longer i can take it. I want to be with him, but i am not happy anymore. I keep thinking of all i will miss without him.. and i just dont think i'd be able to get over it. I love him... have you ever had a relationship you thought would last come to an end? what do you do? how do you cope? cuz i am honestly in bad shape...
2006-07-07 09:47:57 · 7 answers · asked by uhhsure8701 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont' think i've ever been in exactly the situation, but I have friends who have. The best thing I can think of that they did, was talk it out to someone. I'm sorry guys do that, n' i dono what else to say,
hope u feel better soon
:)
2006-07-07 09:52:56 · answer #1 · answered by tallballa07 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I've had the same thing happen to me recently. He is not worth your time. If he is going to do that to you dump him before he does that to you. Or talk to him about things and see if it works out (that all depends on what type of guy he is). He may be just using you too. Believe me you will get over this guy. You are way too good for him. You will find another guy who will respect you and etc. The perfect guy for you.
2006-07-07 16:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by Vampira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him that much let him go and figure himself out. He obviously doesnt want to and doesn't have the time to be in a commited relationship as you want. Just learn from this move on and tell him about the habits he does that get's you grouchy. Say you think that you should only be friends and do just that until you see a change in his behavior.
2006-07-07 16:52:54 · answer #3 · answered by Peache264 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in that same predicament right now. we live to gether and I have been packing my stuff up little by little and moving it out. When I finally get fed up enough im out. No one deserves not to be happy. and no one deserves to be disrespected. You have to be strong and a bigger person, you'll find mr. right.....i should take my own advice. you cope by keeping busy to get your mind off it. don't just sit home on the couch go have fun.
2006-07-07 17:32:24 · answer #4 · answered by Nicole K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And it will get worse before it gets better. You remain in the misery you're in because you're more afraid of being alone. My wife once said "The best way to get over a man is to get under another."
2006-07-07 16:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by antirion 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey depends on how long you ve been with him , , if not too long hey baby , help ur self , do what you think would make you happy , , if leaving him alone ........do it , it is ur own life , he was not there b4 , so you can always move on , ,,,,,....... there no law that says you cant aight baby girl ,be an indepedent woman move on if hes not doing want you think he suppose to be doing ,... .chaoo
2006-07-07 16:54:49 · answer #6 · answered by teehoggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just hold on, if he wants to go let him go. there are thousands of people in this world willing to hurt you so you dont need him. and there are thousands of guys that will treat you right I promise. I played alot of music when in that situation and it helped me.
2006-07-07 16:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by Drake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋